Wellness – Best Health https://www.besthealthmag.ca Canada's destination for health and wellness information for women and gender diverse people. Thu, 18 May 2023 19:06:04 +0000 en-US hourly 6 https://wordpress.org/?v=5.4.2 https://www.besthealthmag.ca/wp-content/uploads/2021/02/Web-Favicon.png?fit=32,32 Wellness – Best Health https://www.besthealthmag.ca 32 32 Prone to Bruises? Here’s How this Daisy Doppelgänger Can Help You Heal https://www.besthealthmag.ca/article/arnica-montana/ Mon, 22 May 2023 11:00:31 +0000 https://www.besthealthmag.ca/?p=67184081 Arnica montana is a plant that's been used for medicinal purposes for five centuries—but many of us still don’t know anything about it. Here's how it can help reduce swelling, bruises and more.

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For many years, my legs were covered in marks and bruises. The lightest graze against an object would turn them black and blue. But recently I tried a cream that promises to quickly remedy scars and bruises, and now my legs are almost completely mark-free. Whats the magical ingredient? Its just a plant, actually, called arnica montana.(Related: What the Colour of Your Bruise Is Trying to Tell You)Arnica isnt simply another buzzy skin-care ingredient thats popped up on TikTok (were looking at you, snail mucin). This herb, a perennial that features canary-yellow flowers, has been used for medicinal purposes since at least the 1500s. Why? Well, according to Christiane Laberge, a family doctor in Montreal, theres nothing elsenatural or otherwisequite like it.Laberge says the superpower of this plant is that it can help accelerate the healing process and is proven to be harmless, as long as its used correctly. Arnica isnt intended to replace conventional and doctor-prescribed medicines, but is instead used alongside them to help alleviate discomfort. Still, not that many people in Canada and the U.S. know about it.In France, 40 percent of doctors prescribe it regularly to treat bruising and swelling, says Laberge. But in Canada, doctors can only suggest it. Although Health Canada reviews all homeopathic products (like arnica) that are available in the country to make sure theyre safe, doctors are only able to prescribe therapies recognized by evidence-based protocols or results supported by scientific societies, says Laberge. However, she adds, in cases where conventional medicine has nothing to offer in terms of a cure, doctors can suggest certain homeopathic substances.Arnica can be used in two ways: as a topical treatment or as a diluted oral remedy. As a topical, it comes in the form of a cream or ointment that can be applied to the skin to treat bruises as well as sprains, sore muscles, wounds, inflammation from insect bites and swelling from broken bones. All you need to do is apply it up to three times a day to the tender area and repeat for a few days until the mark or discomfort fades.As a diluted oral remedy, it comes in capsules to swallow or tiny sweet-tasting pellets to dissolve under the tongue. Like the cream, these supplements can help treat sore muscles, bruises and swelling and can be taken as frequently as needed, lessening the dose as the pain is soothed. (Arnica in plant form is risky to consume, which is why homeopathic supplements are extremely diluted and therefore considered safe.)Although arnica cant be prescribed by doctors in Canada, some highly recommend it, including plastic surgeons. When its taken orally, it helps reduce inflammation, bruising and swelling, which all lead to pain, says Jamil Ahmad, a plastic surgeon in Mississauga. What that means is that feweror noadditional pain medications may be required to soothe discomfort. Ahmad says he and the other doctors in his clinic recommend arnica in part to reduce patients need for narcotics like OxyContin or Percocet, particularly because theyve been overprescribed, overused and shown to be highly addictive. In some cases, patients can alleviate their post-operative pain with a combination of acetaminophen (a.k.a. Tylenol) and arnica.Surgery patients who use arnica supplements typically take them before their procedure and immediately after, until the discomfort subsides. That helps to reduce the onset of swelling, or the development of swelling, and also helps address it once its there, says Ahmad. Topical arnica can be used immediately after surgery to help reduce bruises and swelling in areas without any open wounds. For example, its sometimes recommended before and after rhinoplasty to help heal bruising and swelling around the eyes and nose. And it really worksa 2019 study by the Annals of Plastic Surgery saw a decrease in postoperative swelling for patients who used arnica after surgery on the nose.Arnica should be used according to the directions on the label, or following the advice of your practitioner. The capsules come in different forms, such as 6c, 15c and 30c (the c standing for Hahnemannian centesimal scale unit of dilutions)the higher the number, the stronger the supplement, making it better suited for more severe discomfort. While arnica cream or ointment may cause skin irritation, its extremely rare.Ahmad says that he routinely prescribes oral arnica to patients undergoing surgery, and sometimes prescribes topical arnica. In his 13 years of practicing at his clinic, which sees about 1,000 patients annually, Ahmad says hes never dealt with any adverse reaction from either form of arnica.Arnica topicals and supplements are available at most Canadian health food stores and pharmacies. My own go-tos are from French company Boironit makes all its products in a factory located just outside of Lyon, using freshly harvested arnica. Today, I try to always keep arnica cream or pellets nearbyjust in case a table leg or bedpost jumps in my path, again.Laberge is a convert, too. I always have it in my purse. Whenever she has a small accident, Larberge takes a few arnica pellets immediately to help reduce pain, inflammation and other trauma from the injury. Is it 100 percent effective at reducing pain? I would say no, but it helps, she says.Next: These All-Natural Home Remedies Can Help Boost Your Energy

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The Allure of Romance Novels in 2023 https://www.besthealthmag.ca/article/spicy-booktok/ Mon, 15 May 2023 11:00:57 +0000 https://www.besthealthmag.ca/?p=67184061 Sexy romance books are all over TikTok, which has led to a surge in demand for such spicy reads. Here's why so many women are reaching for them right now.

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About a year and a half into the pandemic, 39-year-old stay-at-home mom of two Karen Whaley picked up a buzzy romance novel and zipped through all 300-plus pages in one evening. It was an unusual experience for her.Whaley had been stuck in an all-too-familiar cycle: I was doomscrolling all the time, she says. I had also totally lost my ability to focus on anythingI wasnt reading books or watching TV. I couldnt even bring myself to start. But after hearing about The Hating Game by Sally Thorne on a podcast and being intrigued by its workplace-drama plot, Whaley downloaded the e-bookand then couldnt set it aside. The sudden voraciousness for reading surprised hershed never been into romance books. In fact, she had thought she was too good for the genre. But while reading The Hating Game, Whaley realized it was fascinating to delve into the lives of women who were very different from her. After finishing the book, Whaley tore through 20 more romances in three months. It opened me up to reading other genres. I was somehow getting my focus back.Turns out, many people found themselves revelling in steamy romance books during the pandemic. Romance fiction sales in Canada saw a 44 percent increase from June 2020 to June 2021, thanks in part to TikTok. In the first few months of 2023, the popular hashtag #BookTok, where readers share their recommendations and reviews, had passed 115 billion views. Most videos on #BookTok feature a reader who raves about a novel, often getting emotional. The intimate and honest tone of the videos encourages viewers to buy the book, leading to a massive boost in sales.Its word-of-mouth marketing cranked to a hundred: One viral video can garner millions of viewsand sales. Rania Husseini, senior vice president of print at Indigo, Canadas largest bookstore, says the chain has seen an extraordinary surge in demand for books thanks to BookTok. Picks from Spicy BookTok, the online community thats gathered around sexually explicit romance novels, have gained significant traction over the past two years in particular, notes Husseini. From 2020 to 2022, the total unit sales of books at Indigo categorized under Spicy BookTok rose 3,104 percent. And despite their trendy-looking covers, these books dont differ significantly from the bodice rippers of yesteryear (you know, the ones with Fabio on the cover). Theyre still romance novels with fairly predictable plots involving two people (usually a man and a woman) falling in love and having outrageous sex. Plus, tropes that are common to BookTok favouriteslike haters-to-lovers or second-chance romancesare the same ones that have been well-loved in Harlequin romances and romantic comedies for as long as the genres have existed.Jenny Pool, owner of Happily Ever Books Canadas only romance-focused online bookstorehas heard from many readers who say theyve turned to romance over the last couple of years because the books provide an escape. Its the emotional interplay between a couple that draws people in, rather than any intricate plot, says Pool. Its not about the destination, what happens at the end of the book. Its the journey that two or more characters go onthats what were interested in, thats what the best part of a romance is. Its getting to explore different dynamics.But the sexy content is a draw, too. Hanna Wheeler, a 41-year-old writer and translator in Toronto, says that other peoples desire is what draws her to these books. Its an inspiration, having these really open conversations about sexuality and turn-ons, she says. The sexual content provides her with tools on how to initiate conversations about sex and relationships in her own lifeespecially those books with a lightheartedness in how characters approach their love life.In addition to the escapism, readers can also be turned on by romance novels, says Jan Cioe, a registered psychologist and an associate professor of psychology at the University of British Columbia. For some, the books can provide an idea of something new and different, he explains. He echoes Wheelers notion that risqu reads can be a sort of inspiration. Typically, most womenbut certainly not allneed some kind of nurturing towards [sex], Cioe says, and that can happen in the context of reading these novels, because they create sexual arousal that can then be manifested in a physical encounter.(Related:Are Your Sexual Fantasies Normal?)However, Cioe points out, trouble can arise when readers take their favourite novels content as reality. Some BookTok bestsellers, like Colleen Hoovers It Ends with Us, depict rough and violent sexual encounters and toxic (usually male) love interests, which some critics say can romanticize unhealthy relationships. Rough sex is not inherently negative, but it shouldnt be idealized or depicted as the best or only kind of sex, and expressing consent is key (something many of the books gloss over). Unfortunately, in our culture, theres pressure for women to…placate their partner, says Cioe. Many romance novels are written by women with female pleasure in mind, but they are designed to be entertainmentnot education. Conflating the sometimes extreme sexual content in a book with what youor your partnersmight want in real life can lead to unhealthy relationship dynamics. To prevent that, its important to know your own comfort zones. Optimal sexual encounters are grounded in clear lines of communication, says Cioe.Pool notes that these reads give people the opportunity to explore situations safelywhether its a sweeping love story or a short-lived affair. And, you know that its all going to work out okay in the end. It gives a little bit of relief, and you can really enjoy the journey the characters go on, she says. You know that therell be a happily ever after.Spicy Booktok Selects

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Find your happily ever after with these popular-on-#BookTok titlesall available at Indigo or your fave indie bookstore like Happily Ever Books.The Kiss Quotient by Helen HoangThis debut novel follows Stella, a math whiz who has done a lot less dating than the average thirtysomething. She hires a male escort to practice everything from kissing to more-than-missionary position. $22, chapters.indigo.caNeon Gods by Katee RobertInspired by Greek mythology, Neon Gods is a racy modern-day adaptation of the story of Persephone and Hades. $23, chapters.indigo.caGet a Life, Chloe Brown by Talia HibbertThis rompy novel from British author Talia Hibbert is about a woman whos tired of being boringso she recruits her neighbour to help her experience things like getting drunk and casual sex. $21, chapters.indigo.caBook Lovers by Emily HenryThis novel by a favourite BookTok author revolves around a cutthroat New York literary agent and a brooding book editor who have a contemptuous relationship. $23, chapters.indigo.caLove and Other Words by Christina LaurenThis sultry read follows a rigid medical resident who thinks her life path is setuntil she runs into her first (and only) love. $23, chapters.indigo.caIt Happened One Summer by Tessa BaileyThis spicy read follows a fashionable It girl whos suddenly sent away to spend the summer running her late fathers dive bar in rainy Washington State. She soon meets bearded sea captain Brendan, her polar opposite, with whom she has a fiery connection. $20, chapters.indigo.caThe Wall of Winnipeg and Me by Mariana ZapataAfter the assistant-slash-housekeeper to a famous football player quits her job, shes shocked when he begs her to come back…and do something unthinkable. $25, chapters.indigo.caThe Hating Game by Sally ThorneLucy and Joshua, two executive assistants to a pair of co-CEOs, are up for the same promotion, and the tension is reaching a boiling point. $20, chapters.indigo.caTwisted Games by Ana HuangThis is the second book in the Twisted series, which follows the forbidden (and steamy) relationship of a stoic bodyguard and a stubborn princess. $27, chapters.indigo.caNext: 18 Goodies Thatll Help Turn Up the Heat in the Bedroom

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Inside the Apartment Where Researchers Study How to Age in Place https://www.besthealthmag.ca/article/safety-for-seniors/ Thu, 11 May 2023 11:00:24 +0000 https://www.besthealthmag.ca/?p=67183984 Get a tour of the "home within a lab," where new products to help keep seniors safe—like cameras, motion sensors and wearables—are tested and tweaked.

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University Avenue in Toronto is lined with several major hospitals, but nestled inside one of themUniversity Health Networks Toronto Rehabilitation Instituteis a fully functioning apartment, plopped right there on the twelfth floor amid a sea of standard office cubicles.The one-bedroom apartment has no ceilings, and is lined with cameras, domestic robots and motion-sensing detectors designed to keep residents safe as they age, recover from stroke or seek to live independently with a disability or dementia (for example). The home within a lab is also designed to replicate the same accessibility challenges that seniors and their caregivers would encounter in a typical home, so researchers can test out creative solutions to common barriers.Kite Lab Safety For Seniors 7Yes, its all a bit Big Brother-y, but the catwalk, the robot and the video cameras are there in the name of science. This is where Atena Roshan Fekr and her team of grad students at the KITE Research Institute HomeLab test out new products, design artificial intelligence data programs and build prototypes aimed at helping the 92 percent of Canadians aged 45-plus who would prefer to age in place, as opposed to living in a long-term care facility, according to a 2022 Ipsos poll.Roshan Fekr specializes in the intersection of technology and aging. The KITE HomeLab is one of four institutions across Canada that make up a project called PATH: the Program to Accelerate Technologies for Home Care. Roshan Fekr and her colleagues develop and test these remote monitoring systems so that they can, one day, be successfully commercialized.The data gathered will also be super valuable to doctors, and busy or far-away relatives and caregivers trying to get a sense of how their loved one is doing on their own. The clinician or the family members will be notified if theres a problem, or if they are progressing, says Roshan Fekr. Here are some of the apartment’s features that can help keep seniors safe.(Related: 5 of the Best Exercise Bikes for Seniors)Kite Lab Safety For Seniors 9

Cameras or catwalk

From the catwalk, and using the video camera footage, researchers can observe volunteer actors who imitate the typical behaviours, movements and reactions of those with physical disabilities or sensory and cognitive impairments as they interact with a standard residential space.Kite Lab Safety For Seniors 10

Helpful robot

This domestic robot gives both audio and video prompts to people with dementia during their common everyday tasks, like washing their hands, brushing their teeth, or making a cup of tea, says scientist Alex Mihailidis. It uses artificial intelligence to adapt to the needs of the individual user.Kite Lab Safety For Seniors 2

Smart sheets

The mat on the bed measures health data such as heart rate and respiration rate, says Roshan Fekr. It can also monitor sleeping position and can alert a caregiver that its time to help turn the patient to prevent pressure sores (aka bed sores).Kite Lab Safety For Seniors 12

Grab bars

Standard accessibility grab bars help seniors navigate safely from the bedroom to the bathroom especially at night, when visibility and mental alertness may be limited.Kite Lab Safety For Seniors 11

Bathroom monitoring

Roshan Fekr and her colleagues will soon be testing a device that tracks toilet use and measures a residents level of hydration and output.Kite Lab Safety For Seniors 8

Exercise mat

This smart yoga mat is used to record physical therapy sessions. Tele-rehab allows seniors to recover at home (from a hip replacement or a stroke, for example) without needing to drive or commute to a hospital or PT office as an outpatient. The camera over the TV monitors body alignment, and the pressure heat as a patient does exercises on the fitness mat also creates data points.Kite Lab Safety For Seniors 3

Smart garment

This wearable, washable shirt from Hexoskin can measure vital signs such as heart rate, breathing rate and the residents ECG (or electrocardiogram, which can monitor heart conditions), as well as general activity like total daily steps and calories burned.Kite Lab Safety For Seniors 6

Outlet plugs

Remote users (such as a family member) can turn off an appliance thats been accidentally left on (using Wi-Fi and a phone app). They can also monitor activity levels around the apartment by detecting whats plugged in where and for how long.Kite Lab Safety For Seniors 5

Drawer, oven, microwave and fridge sensors

The kitchen drawers, cupboards, microwave, oven and refrigerator are equipped with door contact sensors that track when a resident is opening and closing them. This gathers data that can be helpful to families worried their loved one isnt eating or drinking enoughor concerned about safety in the kitchen.Kite Lab Safety For Seniors 82

Living room floors

For a future project, the floors will be equipped with pressure sensors that can monitor a seniors movement patterns and log changes to their gait (which is a possible sign of deteriorating health).Next:5 Stretching Exercises for Seniorsor Anyone Who Feels Achy

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A Former Mayor-Turned-Doctor on Second Careers and Being a Lifelong Learner https://www.besthealthmag.ca/article/mayor-doctor-second-careers/ Mon, 08 May 2023 11:00:04 +0000 https://www.besthealthmag.ca/?p=67183975 Karina Pillay on going to medical school mid-life and becoming a family doctor after leading her small town through a wildfire

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My parents escaped South Africa during apartheid and came to Canada, so I grew up in Slave Lake, a rural community of about 6,000 people in northern Alberta. In a place that size, you learn to get along with everybody. After I finished high school, I went to the University of Alberta in Edmonton, then applied for medical school and was rejected many times. So I returned to Slave Lake. I worked in forestry and adult education. After university, I got married to my junior high school sweetheart, Bill. His family had a business in oil and gas. We took over the business and grew it to 15 employees, but its a tough industry to work in. There are many things to worry aboutthe cold, worker safety, addictions. We enjoyed the challenge but, at a certain point, we recognized it was no longer fulfilling for us. We decided to shut it down.Id been working for the town part-time as a coordinator. It was quite toxiclots of bullying and unethical behaviour. It hit me that this was not the type of environment I wanted to work in. I decided to run for mayor. I wanted to reset the culture and build strength in our community. I was 33. Some people didnt take me seriously because of my age. Other candidates said it was nice to see young people getting involved. But I put together a large team and we door-knocked relentlessly. I was strategic about getting the vote out. In the end, I had more votes than all the men combined.(Related: How One Woman Connects to Her Culture Through Gardening)I was elected mayor first in 2004 and won two more elections after that. In 2011, midway through my third term, a major wildfire broke out on the outskirts of town. I met with my team in the town office, a building wed built one year prior. Someone ran in and shouted, The roofs on fire! Fierce 100 kilometre-per-hour winds were carrying balls of fire through the sky and into the town. Something inside me kicked in at that moment. I didnt think about my own life or my safety, I only thought about what we needed to do for our community. As we were running out of the building, fire was falling from the sky. But my focus never changed. We had a sense of duty to our community. We worked through the night for days on end with very little sleep. You learn very quickly to check your ego at the door and look for the common goal.At the time, the Slave Lake fire was the second largest weather disaster in Canadian history: One third of the towns buildings burnt to the ground. The fire changed the lives of everyone who lived through it. It was hard and horrible, but we benefited from a remarkable wave of support from Alberta, across Canada and the globe. From the start, we were laser-focused on rebuilding. By March 2013, wed rebuilt the town hall. We created a manuscript for other municipalities about our lessons learned from the disaster, which has, sadly, been used for guidance many times since then. In Western Canada, we experienced multiple significant disasters that eclipsed the Slave Lake firethe 2013 flooding in southern Alberta, the 2016 fires in Fort McMurray and a series of wildfires and heatwaves across British Columbia.Through all of this, medicine was still on my mind. During my last summer as mayor, as the new town hall was going up, I started studying for the medical school entrance exam again. It was an enormous challenge. I was using textbooks from 20 years ago. But the skills that I had developed as mayorleadership, community building, resource managementhelped me to get into medical school. I started at the University of Calgary in the summer of 2013.My rule is that I dont doubt myself until I give something a go. You dont know until you try it. Life is about learning and trying, again and again. Be a lifetime learner.Medical school was tough. I was 42 when I started. When I walked into my first class, I carried a pen and paper, and everyone else brought their laptop. (I bought a Mac later that week.) You dont get breaks for being a mature student. You work the same hours as everyone.I was drawn to family medicine, so I joined a practice in Calgary. I like challenges, and its a challenge. Family doctors help manage someones health, but we also help with social issues because were looking at the preventative side.Id just completed my second year of practice when the pandemic struck. It has not been an easy ride. Its a joy and a privilege to be part of someones journey, but I would say that this is probably the toughest career Ive been in. It can consume you, with its need for constant empathy and compassion. I worry so much about my patientsjust like I worried about my community as mayor. But as a physician, you have to learn how to set boundaries from work. You could be there more than 10 hours a day, every day.Im planning to keep doing this for a while. That said, I do have my next career challenge in mind. Ive applied to become a member of the Canadian Senate. Since 2016, Canadians can apply to the Independent Advisory Board for Senate Appointments. This body is designed to ensure that senators are non-partisan and reflect Canadas diversity. I dont know if Ill be considered. But for me, one of the roles of a senator is to represent vulnerable populations. As a woman of colour, I would not take that responsibility lightly. It would even mean leaving medicine, because I couldnt do both jobs. As a family doctor, you need to be there for your patients.I feel like Ive lived multiple lives with all my experiences. I got here by being a lifelong learner and keeping my mind open to experiencing new things.When I graduated from medical school, I was asked to speak at our graduation. My message remains true: You may have graduated, but you are a learner still. Be kind to others who are learningyou will be learning from them, too.Next: I Joined the Navy Reserves at 51

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Wondering Why You’re Spotting? A Doctor Weighs In https://www.besthealthmag.ca/list/why-am-i-spotting/ Thu, 04 May 2023 12:00:38 +0000 http://origin-www.besthealthmag.ca/?p=67071401 Often, your doctor will tell you it's "normal"—here's why.

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Its your IUD

The gynecologist says: Hormonal IUDs, like Mirena, Jaydess, or the newest product in Canada called Kyleena (a low-dose hormonal IUD that can be used for five years) control bleeding in part by thinning the lining of the uterus. Progestins keep the lining of the uterus from growing out of controlbut it can do too good a job, so the lining is a bit unstable and sheds. This can translate to a period that is so light it is perceived as spotting. Tracking your cycle will help.For some women, particularly those who have heavy flow prior to an IUD, they will experience irregular spotting instead of the heavy period, or spotting with lighter flow. Women should weigh the pros and cons of spotting against what periods were like beforeespecially if they were heavy or painful.(Related: 10 Doctor-Recommended Ways to Make Getting an IUD Less Painful)

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It’s all the exercise you’re doing

The gynecologist says: Women who spot after intercourse or intense exercise may do so simply because the friction of the cervix is causing some irritation. Women who are taking up new rigorous exercise routines and who lose weight rapidly may also experience spotting owing to changes in hormones. Burning fat cells and weight loss can release estrogen into the body. And, because fat cells help produce some sex hormones, sustained weight loss can cause a lower level of estrogen in the body. If a woman loses too much weight, her periods may stop and spotting may result. If that’s the case, you should visit your doctor.(Related: Demonizing Food? Its a Sign of Orthorexia)

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Youre stressed

The gynecologist says: Stress plays a complex role in spotting and cycle changes. Likely the increase in cortisol affects the bodys signaling system and the change in hormones causes spotting to occur.(Related: A Bath Is the Stress-Melter You Need Right Now)

You have ectropion or polyps

The gynecologist says: “If you have significant or bothersome spotting, a trip to the doctor is warranted. Polyps are small growths on the cervix that can bleed on contact. They are benign but can be removed if bothersome. Ectropion is a normal condition where the glandular cellsthe ones that look like the lining of the uterusare prominent on the cervix. This can bleed easily if poked. In some [medical] centres, liquid nitrogen can be used to freeze the ectropion to prevent further bleeding.(Related: Everything You Need to Know About Vaginal Discharge)

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Your levels of progesterone and estrogen are off-balance

The gynecologist says: Spotting can be a sign that hormone levels are off, but in most cases. It is normal for a small amount of spotting around ovulationtwo weeks before a period is duerelated to hormone changes. Women who find spotting to be a nuisance can talk to their doctor about options. The most common option is to try a birth control pill, which is progestin-dominant and will help stabilize the lining. Numerous studies have looked at supplements that can help control [hormone-related] spotting. Unfortunately, while small studies show promise, most large scale studies do not show benefit for vitamin B supplementation, vitamin C or iron.”(Related: Are Your Hormones Out of Control? Heres How to Deal)

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Its your birth control pills

The gynecologist says: In any case where a woman experiences spotting on the pill, an IUD, either copper or hormonal, such as a Mirena, Kyleena of Jaydess, is a reasonable next option.(Related: Everything You Need to Know About the Arm Implant for Birth Control)

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Youre pregnant

The gynecologist says: Some women may experience an implantation bleed once a pregnancy has taken hold. Any irregular period or bleeding warrants a pregnancy test. Implantation bleeds are also a common culprit when a woman finds out she is further along in her pregnancy than expectedthat bleed can be confused for a period.(Related: What You Need to Know if Youre Delaying Pregnancy During Covid)

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You’re close to menopause

The gynecologist says: Menopause is a time of transition, which can start five to 10 years prior to periods stopping. Some women experience spotting because they arent releasing an egg each month, and so the body isnt going to have a normal period. Other women, as their hormone levels drop, may experience very light flow or spotting, as the lining of the uterus becomes dormant. In a healthy young woman, spotting is not a warning sign of menopause.”(Related: 9 Questions About Menopause Youve Been too Embarrassed to Ask)

So, now what?

If spotting is rare, and there are no red flags, then a visit to the doctor is probably not necessary,” says Costescu. “The occasional irregular period or episode of spotting is normalbut there are a few conditions associated with spotting that your doctor will want to rule out if you go.His advice? Look for patternswhen it happens and at what point in the cycle it occurs. Make note if you changed sexual partners, are taking new medication, or anything else in your lifestyle that is different and might affect what’s going on down there.

In summary:

  1. In most cases, the occasional episode of spotting is nothing to worry about.
  2. It is normal for some women to experience spotting at the beginning or tail end of a period.
  3. Spotting is common in the first few months of use of any birth control, including pills and IUDs.
  4. Beware of spotting that can be a warning sign for an STD, cervical cancer (spotting comes with pain), an infection (accompanied with fever or discharge), pregnancy, miscarriage or ectopic pregnancy.
  5. Smoking increases the rate of spotting.

Next: The Honest, Expert-Backed Truth About Having Sex While on Your Period

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3 Women Tell Us What Happened When They Had a Stroke https://www.besthealthmag.ca/article/how-to-prevent-a-stroke/ Mon, 01 May 2023 16:02:13 +0000 https://www.besthealthmag.ca/?p=67183947 Here are the warning signs and prevention tips they wish more people knew about.

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Every year, more than 100,000 Canadians have a stroke, and around half of them are women.Most stroke sufferers will experience whats called an ischemic stroke, where a clot blocks blood flow to a part of the brain. When the cells on the other side of that clot stop getting oxygen and nutrients, they die, which causes brain damage and lasting symptoms like memory loss or paralysis. Because each side of the brain controls the opposite side of the body, people who have a stroke in the right side of their brain will often be paralyzed on their left side (and vice versa).Others will have a hemorrhagic stroke, which happens when a weakened blood vessel in the brain leaks or bursts, flooding the surrounding area with blood and causing the cells there to die.Finally, a mini-stroke (the medical term is a transient ischemic attack, or TIA) is when a clot temporarily blocks blood flow to the brain before breaking up on its own. It causes symptoms for an average of 15 minutes and resolves within 24 hours, with minor damage. But its often a warning shot that youll have another stroke within the next few days, says Michael Hill, a neurologist at the University of Calgary and Foothills Hospital and a prominent stroke researcher. For that reason, it definitely warrants an ER trip.The most important thing to know, says Hill, is that the main risk factors for stroke are one: hypertension, two: hypertension and three: hypertension.He explains that blood clots usually develop from uncontrolled high blood pressurealso known as hypertensioncombined with additional factors (such as high cholesterol or smoking). When the pressure of the blood flowing within your arteries is higher than it should be, it damages the walls of those arteries, and your body dispatches white blood cells to the site. When that damage is combined with high cholesterol floating by, sticking to the white blood cells, it results in the accumulation of plaque on the artery wall. The plaque may cause clots, and a big clot can completely block the artery its in, or float to another part of your body and cause trouble there. If it blocks the blood flow to your heart, thats a heart attack. If it impedes the blood flow to your brain, thats a stroke.This is why its so important to check your blood pressure periodically. Both women and men should aim for a reading under about 120/80 mm Hg.The risk of stroke is also higher if you are older than 55; if you have a family history of stroke; if you are obese; or if you have diabetes, high blood cholesterol or atrial fibrillation. People living in poverty (who are more likely to be women than men), some members of racialized communities and Indigenous people, and people living in rural or remote areas are also more likely to have risk factors for stroke, and are less likely to have access to consistent or comprehensive management of those health issues.Recently, newer research has revealed heightened stroke risks that are specific to women: Having endometriosis, taking estrogen-containing birth control, being pregnant and being on hormone replacement therapy all slightly increase the likelihood of stroke. If you experienced pre-eclampsia during a pregnancy, your risk of a stroke later in life doubles.But while some of those risk factors might be out of our control, there is plenty that women can do to lower their risk of stroke, including quitting smoking, getting active, eating more fruit and vegetables and keeping blood pressure in check.Some good news: Over the past decade, medications and treatments for strokes have improved dramatically, and considerably more Canadians who suffer a stroke now survive. One newer, game-changing treatment is called endovascular thrombectomy (EVT), in which doctors go into the bloodstream after the clot has blocked the blood flow with a small flexible tube and physically pull the clot out. At Foothills, which was one of the first hospitals to test and pioneer this extraction procedure, Hill worked on a study finding that, for very large, serious strokes, EVT has radically improved patient quality of life and cut death rates in half.It has transformed care for that group of people, says Patrice Lindsay, director of health systems at the Heart and Stroke Foundation of Canada.But these new meds and interventions work best if people seek help within minutes of having a stroke. Statistically, we can show that every 10 minutes makes a difference, says Hill. Coming in early can make the difference between walking out of the hospital two days later or being in long-term care, paralyzed.Stroke Surcicors Carla

Carla Hindman

Communications professional and 44-year-old mother of three in TorontoI was only 41 when I had a stroke. I was at my office, and at around 1 p.m. I went to the bathroom. When I went to wash my hands, I looked at myself in the mirror and I couldnt see properly. I thought, This is really weird. When I finished washing my hands and walked back to my desk, I put my head down and started to cry. A colleague beside me was like, Whats going on? And I said, Somethings wrong with my eyes. But then I said, I think Im having an ocular migraineI had had one before. I didnt know that vision changes were also a sign of stroke.My colleagues decided to call my husband, Matt, who worked across the street. We jumped in a cab together to go to our doctors office, and by the time we got there, my face was drooping, I was slurring and I had weakness in my left side. Matt was thinking, Oh my God, this looks like a stroke. Since we were in front of my family doctors office, he decided to take me inside instead of wasting more time going all the way back downtown to the ERhe thought it would be better to get medical advice as soon as possible. But they took one look at me at the doctors office and called 911.When we were waiting for the ambulance, Matt told me to raise my hands. I raised only the right one, and he said, Both of them! I yelled back at him, I am raising both of them! but my left arm was dead at my sideI just didnt know it.I dont remember anything after that until midnight. But I had left the doctors office in an ambulance, and they had assessed me, given me clot-busting medication and put me in the ICU. My mom had flown in from Ottawa to be with me, and Matt had gone home to be with our three kids. The nurses were coming in every once in a while, showing me flashcards, asking me what the pictures were. My mom said that at midnight it was like a switch flipped, and I was back to normal.At the hospital, they found a hole in my heart, which I had no idea was there. They said that this was what caused the strokethose holes can allow blood clots to travel to the brain instead of the lungs, where they would normally go. A year later, I had a procedure to repair it, and now my risk of a stroke is as low as an average persons.I was extremely, extremely lucky: I didnt have any lasting physical deficiencies after the stroke. But I do have a few issues with short-term memory still, and sometimes I have trouble coming up with the word I want. And I was exhausted afterwardI was off work for a month and then had to do a staggered re-entry after that.I didnt know that people my age could have strokes, but now I have met so many people who have had them in their 40s. It happens all the time. I think everyone should know what the signs of a stroke are and that vision changes are one of them. If more people knew the signs, and that young people can have strokes, they might feel empowered to call 911 in situations like mine, and a lot more people could get the help they need faster.Stroke Survivors Kathy 2

Kathy Isaac

Cybersecurity executive and 47-year-old married mother of two in Ajax, OntarioI had a stroke two years ago while I was in the ICU, hospitalized for COVID. After about two days, I woke up with extreme nausea, and I was dizzy and vomiting for days. But my doctors didnt realize what was happening, even after my left hand started to feel strange and heavy. Eventually, I realized I couldnt hold my fork in that hand.A week later, when a physiotherapist came to prepare me to go home, she was the one who noticed the signs of stroke. They did a brain scan, and a doctor came the day before I was supposed to leave and said, I have bad newsyouve had a stroke. I thought he had the wrong person. I actually said to him, No, Im Kathy.In my head, Im thinking, Im 45 years old. Strokes are for older people. Im better, Im going home.Even after I realized something had happened, I still felt like, if Ive had a stroke, what does that mean? They started to talk to me about neuroplasticity, and they explained that the best window for recovery is the first six months.So I wasnt wasting any time. I started walking in my hospital room while I was still attached to oxygen. Then I did outpatient therapy: physical therapy, occupational therapy and a little bit of speech therapy, too. I had a singular goal: I wanted to go in one direction, to make progress. I did everything they asked. And I did wellI hit the physical milestones by about three months out.But it still all felt so heavy. I had a meltdown one day with my physiotherapist and just cried. Eventually, I was connected to the Heart and Stroke Foundation and the March of Dimes. I was in a young stroke survivors group for a long time.Just before I went into the hospital for COVID, I had graduated from Ivey Business School in London, Ontario, with my MBA. It was hard, really hardI did it while I was working as an executive, and as a wife and mother. I thought about quitting. But the motto at Ivey was trust the process. And I decided, no, Im gonna tough it out.That was an important life lesson. When I went to rehab, I knew to just put in the work, and trust the process. Im a born-again Christian and I do believe, like the Bible says, that all things work together for good. To me, the MBA prepared me.Im a few years out from the stroke now. My mobility is really good, and work is going well, tooI think I perform very well. But I have to work every day to not regressI walk or use my spin bike. And Im not the same. My balance can be a little wonky, I cant handle noisy situations and I have more anxiety. I still have precision issues in my left hand because the message from the brain to my left hand is delayed. If I type with both hands, the right hand will be fine and the left hand will be behind.One of the biggest challenges Ive had is friends and acquaintances thinking Im all better. Im not looking for sympathy, but I need people to understand that Im not 100 percent. Even when I park in a disabled parking spotwhich I need to doIve been confronted by strangers when I get out of my car. Because I dont use a cane or a walker, I dont get the understanding and help that I need.Stroke Survivors Earle

Earle Hoyte

76-year-old retired church administrator, caregiver and grandmother in TorontoOne weekend I went on a short trip. After I got home, off the train, I said something to my granddaughter, and it felt like it wasnt coming out right. But when I asked her if she could understand what I was saying, she said yes. And I also felt very tired, so I just went to bed.In the morning, my tongue felt very heavy, and when I went to put on my lipstick, my hand kept falling down. My son-in-law and daughter-in-law were there and they said, You dont sound wellwe should take you to the hospital. I knew I wasnt fine; I felt different. But I didnt know it was a stroke. I thought only old people had strokes and I was only 75.And I didnt realize what else was happening to me. At the hospital, the nurses recognized it immediately as stroke and pushed me through. The doctors did a lot of tests. But I didnt realize the effect the stroke had on me until the doctor asked me to sign my name on a document. It was only then that I realized I couldnt. I was just scribbling.They told me my stroke was caused by atrial fibrillationan irregular heartbeat. I didnt know I had it before the stroke. They put me on blood thinners, and with atrial fibrillation, its quite easy to have another stroke. So I have to be quite careful, and take my tablets every day.After I left the hospital, I was referred to the University Centre location of Toronto Rehab. Before I went, I didnt know what to expect. I was scared. But everybody I met there was so warm to meeven the receptionist. They were very positive, and it helped very much.I went there for three months, as an outpatient. We worked on the physical: I had to walk with a walker, and up and down stairs, and practice stepping over things. They focused on my balance a lot, too.They also worked on my memory, because whenever I tried to speak, I had to think for a long time to remember what I wanted to say. And a speech therapist helped with my voiceI used to sing in the church choir, and I couldnt sing anymore. My drivers licence was suspended, and they worked on that with me. I even did a driving simulation at Toronto Rehab.At one point, I didnt want to go, because I was feeling depressed. They referred me to a social worker, and to the March of Dimes program for people with disabilities. Now I go several times a week. March of Dimes has a stroke textbook, too, that I wish I had had before, because it tells you what to expect, what questions to ask, who is going to see you and what each person will do for you.Ive improved a lotIm back to singing in the choir, and Im able to be a caregiver to my elderly sister. But there are things I cant do anymore, like baking or reaching items off the highest shelves. I had to completely rearrange my kitchen. Holding my arms down for so long, or holding something heavyits too hard.I wish everybody knew that if your body feels strange, seek help. You dont know what it isit could be anything. Especially if its something you havent experienced before. Dont say, Let me wait and seeseek help immediately. Thats the key.Next: How Heart Disease Affects Women Differently Than Men

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The Right Antidepressant for You, According to a Clinical Pharmacist https://www.besthealthmag.ca/article/the-pros-and-cons-of-some-common-antidepressants/ https://www.besthealthmag.ca/article/the-pros-and-cons-of-some-common-antidepressants/#comments Thu, 27 Apr 2023 11:00:42 +0000 We tapped an expert to help us examine the pros and cons of seven often-prescribed antidepressants.

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Antidepressants are commonly prescribed to treat depression and anxietyabout 13 percent of Canadians take them, according to a small 2021 study. They were designed to increase the release of specific neurotransmitters [like serotonin, norepinephrine and dopamine] in certain areas of the brain to help restore the imbalance and improve communication between neurons to treat symptoms of depression, says Dr. Melanie McLeod, a board-certified psychiatric pharmacist. While physicians and researchers know this correlates with improvement in depressive symptoms and brain functioning, says McLeod, they still dont fully understand how much of the improvements in mood are the result of the drugs, and why some patients respond preferentially to certain antidepressants versus others. These unknowns are one of several reasons why doctors need to recommend various antidepressants to patients to find the one that works with them.(Related: Can You Ever Stop Taking Antidepressants?)In other words, antidepressants are not a one-size-fits-all treatment. A doctor or healthcare professional should examine a patients symptoms and medical history and tailor the treatment options to suit their specific needs, says McLeod. There are also many factors to consider when prescribing antidepressants, including tolerability, side effects, the patients symptoms (for example, choosing a medication with a sleep-promoting agent for someone experiencing insomnia), safety considerations related to other medical conditions, risk of drug interactions, patient preference, cost, and safety for specific individuals, age groups or illnesses. She says that, for women, there are additional considerations related to menstruation, pregnancy and lactation.Whats more, there are different classes of antidepressants to consider. Many inhibit reuptake, which is the process where neurotransmitters are naturally reabsorbed back into nerve cells in the brain. A reuptake inhibitor prevents this from happening to increase neurotransmitter activity. Selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRIs) increase levels of serotonin in the brain while serotonin and norepinephrine reuptake inhibitors (SNRIs) increase both serotonin and norepinephrine. Norepinephrine and dopamine reuptake inhibitors (NDRIs) increase norepinephrine and dopamine. Tricyclics also impact serotonin and norepinephrine, but are less selective than SSRIs. They act on receptors throughout the body.Heres a rundown of the pros, cons and common side effects of some often-prescribed antidepressants. Theyre sold under multiple trade names, but all are available in generic format, which tends to cost less.(Note that discontinuation symptomssuch as nausea and difficulty sleepingmay occur with any of these medications when stopped abruptly.)

Escitalopram (Lexapro)

Pros: An SSRI often prescribedl for anxiety and depressive symptoms. Along with other SSRIs, its considered a top choice by some for use during pregnancy and lactation.Cons: Potential for sexual dysfunction and weight gain.Possible side effects: nausea, headache, dry mouth, dizziness, weakness, excessive sweating

Sertraline (Zoloft)

Pros: An SSRI that is used to treat depressive symptoms and other mental health conditions like obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD) and panic disorder. Generally considered safe for use in pregnancy and lactation. Less expensive than other medications.Cons: Potential for sexual dysfunction.Possible common side effects: Nausea, sleep issues, headache, diarrhea, loss of appetite, dry mouth

Duloxetine (Cymbalta)

Pros: An SNRI used for anxiety and depression. It can also be used to treat pain from medical conditions like fibromyalgia and diabetic neuropathy.Cons: Potential for severe drug interactions.Possible common side effects: sleepiness, headache, insomnia, dizziness, blurred vision, diarrhea, lack of energy, constipation

Venlafaxine (Effexor)

Pros: An SNRI prescribed for anxiety and depression, and generally well tolerated. May help reduce menopause-related hot flashes.Cons: Safety concerns to consider with pregnancy.Possible common side effects: nausea, sweating, headache, drowsiness, dry mouth, dizziness

Bupropion (Wellbutrin, Aplenzin, Zyban)

Pros: An NDRI used for depression, seasonal affective disorder and smoking cessation. It may help improve focus, concentration and motivation, and help with coping with fatigue.Cons: May be too stimulating for some; may aggravate anxiety symptoms and insomnia. Not always suitable for those with an eating disorder or who are prone to seizures.Possible common side effects: agitation, drowsiness, difficulty falling asleep or staying asleep, dry mouth, dizziness

Mirtazapine (Remeron)

Pros: A tetracyclic drug used to treat symptoms of depression and anxiety. Promotes sleep and improves insomnia with low reports of sexual dysfunction. It can also increase appetite, which is beneficial for individuals who are underweight.Cons: Its strong sedation effect causes excessive tiredness. Some experience unwanted weight gain. Can, on rare occasions, cause changes in menstrual cycle, which is considered to be a severe side effect.Possible common side effects: dry mouth, headache, sleepiness, nausea, vomiting, diarrhea, constipation

Vortioxetine (Trintellix)

Pros: An SSRI that also modulates serotonin receptors. Its used to treat major depressive disorder and has been shown to be helpful with improving cognitive impairment associated with depression. Low reports of sexual dysfunction and weight gain.Cons: It can be expensive compared to other antidepressants. Nausea is quite prevalent in the first two weeks of treatment.Possible common side effects: nausea, constipation, vomiting, dizziness, dry mouth, diarrhea, headacheNext: Frustrated Your Antidepressants Arent Working? Heres What You Need To Know

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I Tried the Trendy Pretzel Dip Sex Move—Here’s What Happened https://www.besthealthmag.ca/article/pretzel-dip-sex-move/ Wed, 26 Apr 2023 11:00:40 +0000 https://www.besthealthmag.ca/?p=67183910 It was intimate, it was raunchy, it was delicious.

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On a recent Wednesday night, feeling peckish and bored, I ordered a pizza and my situationship (a.k.a. the person Im sort of dating) over to heat things up. We ate said pizza, drank some whiskey, and eventually slithered away to my bedroom.It was my first time hooking up with this particular partner, and one of the few times I didnt jump into bed on the first date. In other words, there was a fair bit of pent-up energy between us, which transpired into an evening of unexpected sexual acrobatics. It was a night that had it all: missionary, doggy, cowgirl, you name it. But none seemed to scratch my itchuntil he rearranged my limbs, and entered me with that same satisfying feeling of sliding in a final puzzle piece. What was this position that felt just right? A buzzy move called the pretzel dip, which happened to be on my sex to-do list.(Related: The Absolute Best Sex Position, According to Experts)Heres how the move went: I lay on my right side, and he kneeled down, straddling my right leg. I wrapped my left leg around his torso and thrusted and grinded, and we used our hands to please each other further. We kept eye contact the whole time, dirty talking while tangled up together. Orgasming was easy, and every part of my body felt pleasure.According to Rashida Ahmed, a Toronto-based sex educator and intimacy coach, the pretzel dip promotes greater intimacy than most other positions because it allows for greater eye contact and hand play, since you dont need to hold yourself up. Plus, for those with vaginas, there are a lot more nerve endings near the opening of the vaginal canal, so a position like the pretzel dip can allow for more direct clitoral stimulation, says Ahmed. It can also be a great position for a partner who isnt well-endowed or is average-sized, as it allows for deep penetration.The pretzel deep also allows you to get deep, emotionally. My partner and I talked through each move and ended up discovering what pleases each other most. Thanks to all the eye contact, all other noise in the room disappeared and we were fully focused on each other. Ahmed says the pretzel dip is a common tantric sex exercise that she recommends to her patients. The position (even for couples who are fully clothed) creates a closeness where they can feel literally intertwined, synchronize their breathing and thereby connect more deeply.Whats more, the position is gentle enough for someone like me who has PCOS and can experience pain from sex. According to Ahmed thats because its not high impact, and can therefore be an ideal move for a range of people, including those with mobility issues.But the position might not be comfortable right from the start. If not, Ahmed suggests trying different angles, straightening the leg if need be, and also bringing in pillows underneath the hip (as I did). You may also want to change your location, such as opting for a couch or a flat surface like the floor for more support, as additional bounce might just be too painful for those with hip issues. I used an especially fluffy comforter to wrap around us so we were padded in every direction.No matter how you slice twist it, the pretzel dip gets the job doneand quickly, effectively, and repeatedly. You can really allow yourself to have multiple orgasms with it, says Ahmed, because it stimulates a lot more of the vulva and penis than other positions.Next: 18 Goodies Thatll Help Turn Up the Heat in the Bedroom

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Why Everyone’s Playing Pickleball Right Now https://www.besthealthmag.ca/article/what-is-pickleball/ Mon, 24 Apr 2023 11:00:16 +0000 https://www.besthealthmag.ca/?p=67183899 One million Canadians play pickleball every single month. Here's what's behind the sudden popularity—and how to get started.

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Leonardo DiCaprio is obsessed with it. LeBron James bought a team. Grand Slam tennis champ Serena Williams said she could make it her second career. And, recently, my friends and I also picked up this buzzy racquet sport.Pickleball is the fastest-growing sport in North America, boasting nearly 5 million players on this continent with millions more worldwide. From 2020 to 2022, the number of participants in Canada tripled, with about one million picklers playing monthly. Although older adults were the early adopters, today the largest increase is among millennials, with female participants outnumbering men in most age groups.The sport is an amalgam of badminton, table tennis and tennis. Just swap a tennis racquet for a smaller, solid-faced paddle and the fuzzy ball for a plastic Wiffle ball, set the net eight inches lower, shrink the court down to about a quarter of its size and youve got the makings of a pickleball game. The condensed playing field makes it less taxing on the body and allows for more ralliesand chit-chat. For first-timers, these differences make the sport more welcoming and easier to pick up.Pickleball might seem like it arrived to enthusiastic fanfare overnight. However, its inception can be traced back to the summer of 1965, when three American dads concocted the game while trying to entertain their bored kids. More recently, it surged in popularity during the pandemic lockdown, when many people were looking for new outdoor activities to help them safely stay fit. Pickleball has now made the leap from backyard pastime to primetime, with televised matches and celebrity tournaments.Drummond Munro, a lifelong racquet-sports enthusiast, was introduced to pickleball in South Carolina six years ago. This past summer, he co-founded Fairgrounds Public Racket Club, a public pickleball court in Toronto, and has plans to roll out more locations across Canada. Munros goal is to introduce the sport more widely and democratize the culture around sports clubs. Were building a new type of social club that removes that elitist, exclusive nature often associated with traditional clubs, says Munro. While many sports clubs have invitation-only admittance and high initiation fees, plus yearly dues and minimum spends, Fairgrounds is accessible to all agesanyone can book a court time onlineand inexpensive ($10 per visit, with free admission on Tuesdays).Catherine Parenteau, 27, is a Montreal native and the number two-ranked international pro pickleball player. She picked up the sport seven years ago after being sidelined from competing in tennis once her full scholarship at Michigan State University ended. Since she began touring as a pro pickleball player, shes witnessed the sport explode worldwide. Its much easier than other [racquet] sports to get a rally going because the ball doesnt bounce as much. This allows you to control your shots more and keep the ball going, says Parenteau. She also likes that the sport is inclusive and crosses all generations and abilities. I can hit balls with my grandmother and have great rallies. You can play with someone of any age and level.The initial draw for my own group of friends was the social aspect that allowed us to participate in an event together. That we could learn a new sport while engaging in an athletic activity outdoors was simply a bonus. Pickleball strikes the perfect balance of fun and fitness. Plus, its beginner-friendly, which makes it easy for newcomers to join our pick-up matches. Our rotating roster of friends and family balloons every weekit even brought out our Gen Z offspring. By 2030, pickleball is projected to have 40 million people playing worldwide, and our kids and parents will likely be included among those fans.Pickleball Hero 2

The health benefits of pickleball

Here are all the ways this racquet sport is a smash hit for your body and mind.Heart HealthPickleball combines short bursts of intensity with periods of recovery, which is a great way to condition the heart and strengthen your cardiovascular system, says registered physiotherapist Meg MacPherson.Muscle Control and StrengthOur bodies are designed to moveand to move in various directions. These sudden multidirectional movements improve muscle control. Over the course of a match, youll engage nearly every muscle from the upper body to your legs and core, says MacPherson.Cardio BoostYou can expect a heart-pumping workout during an hour-long match. According to researchers at the University of Manitoba, people playing singles or doubles can clock heart rates that indicate moderate to vigorous activity. Apple recently added pickleball to its roster of trackable workouts; on average, you can burn 400 to 700 calories per hour.AgilityWith its sudden movements and lower downtime, pickleball encourages agility and a higher control of your actions, says MacPherson. That allows you to react swiftly and effectively to your environment.Social ConnectionMacPherson notes that participating in a sport that allows you to engage with others can release endorphins (those feel-good brain chemicals that also work as a natural painkiller).CoordinationRacquet sports famously improve hand-eye coordination, a skill essential for initiating and reacting to action.

Up Your Game

Three expert tips from Catherine Parenteau:

  • Always try to return the ball deep (meaning close to the opponents baseline) so you have time to set up your next shot.
  • Ensure the balls contact point is in front of your body for maximum control of your shot.
  • Dont be afraid of the kitchena zone that extends seven feet from the net on both sides. While you cant enter the kitchen if the ball hasnt already bounced, you can still reach in to hit it as long as you keep your feet behind the kitchen line.

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Mouth Taping: What Is It, and Is It Actually Worth It?  https://www.besthealthmag.ca/article/mouth-breather/ https://www.besthealthmag.ca/article/mouth-breather/#comments Thu, 20 Apr 2023 09:00:34 +0000 https://www.besthealthmag.ca/article/mouth-breather/ We wondered why some people are taping their mouths shut at night, and whether mouth breathing is really all that bad for you.

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As more and more people have learned about the benefits of nasal breathing, the trend of mouth taping has taken off, and its not just for bio-hackers and those susceptible to wellness fads. Driven by social media, this health trend has resulted in many peoplemainly TikTok userstaping their mouths shut at night (yes, really) to stop them from breathing through their mouths.While many online health hacks are baseless, this one isnt quite as bizarre, dangerous or ill-advised as it may sound. The importance of breathing through your nose at night shouldnt be discounted, as anyone with sleep apnea or a snoring issue (or who shares a bed with someone who struggles with these issues!) might already know. That’s because nasal breathing provides a number of health benefits, while mouth breathing is associated with a list of potential problems.

Why breathing out of your nose is better than mouth-breathing

Nasal breathing allows an individual to breathe more slowly and effectively. The nose is designed to filter viruses, bacteria, debris and allergens, says Sabrina Magid-Katz, a New York-based dentist who specializes in sleep dentistry and related sleep disorders. People are finally starting to think about what some ancient cultures have always knownthat breathing in and out through the nose is healthier, says Magid-Katz, referencing the nasal breathing exercises taught in yoga and Tai Chi classes.The nose humidifies the air we breathe, and also increases oxygen to the bloodstream, improves lung function, and decreases stress on the body. The bodys cells are able to get the oxygen they need more efficiently from the bloodstream, allowing the body to function optimally, the muscles to recover faster and the heart to work less hard. Who wouldnt want less stress and inflammation, and more stamina, energy and mental function? she says.On the other hand, mouth breathing causes dry mouth, according to Brian Rotenberg, a head and neck surgeon and a professor of Otolaryngology at Western University in London, Ont. This is because the mouth isnt capable of humidifying air in the same way as the nose. Saliva typically washes bacteria from the mouth when its closed, but it can more easily survive and cause issues when the mouth is open and drypotentially leading to bad breath, gum disease and cavities, he says.Breathing dry air through the mouth can also cause inflammation of the airway and further block it, says Magid-Katz. This creates an airway that is more collapsible, which can lead to Obstructive Sleep Apnea (OSA) a medical condition in which someone stops breathing while theyre sleeping, interrupting their sleep cycle and often decreasing the oxygen in their blood. This condition is associated with other medical conditions including high blood pressure, stroke and diabetes, she says, as well as chronic sleep deprivation or a sense of never feeling truly rested.

What causes mouth breathing?

There are a few different reasons why an individual might be a mouth breather, Magid-Katz says. Some people breathe through their mouth because their nasal passage is blocked as a result of allergies, and others do so due to a structural problem, such as a deviated septum. Mouth breathing often starts when were kids, she says, preventing muscular habits and dental arches from growing to properly support the nasal passage.Enlarged tonsils and adenoidsas well as whats called soft tissue trauma, often caused by snoring can also block the airway, which only further encourages mouth breathing and, in turn, creates a vicious cycle of more trauma and enlargement. Other people breathe through their mouth out of habit, she says. Interestingly, the less they breathe through their nose, the harder it may become.

Signs you might be a mouth breather

If you constantly wake up with an exceptionally dry mouth or lips, or even a sore throat, Rotenberg says theres a good chance youre breathing through your mouth at night. Since some nighttime mouth breathers also breathe through their mouths during the day, you can try looking at photos or observing yourself in the mirror. If your lips are parted or your mouth is hanging open, chances are youre breathing through it, says Magid-Katz. You can also self-assess your smile, as an extra gummy smile might mean youve been mouth breathing since childhood. Or, look at your posture from a side angle, or get someone to take a picture of you. Those with blocked airways, including mouth breathers, tend to have heads that reach forward because theyre trying to get more air. (Since most mouth breathing starts in childhood, our posture can naturally develop this way to accommodate the habit.)

How does mouth taping work?

The practice consists of using some kind of porous tapenot duct tape or masking tapeto keep the lips shut at night in order to encourage nasal breathing. Its appearance differs based on the brand, but mouth tape is often thin, transparent and can be applied horizontally, vertically or in a criss-cross shape across the lips. If youre picturing looking like a hostage with tape across your mouth, you can take comfort in knowing the tape made specifically for this purpose doesnt look quite as alarming as duct tape would although its still slightly creepy and strange-looking. And while it will be more challenging to talk to your partner or take a sip of water in the night, mouth taping fans say the benefits can outweigh these minor inconveniences.If you are going to try tape, use one that is porous and is not too adhesive so that you can still open your mouth if need be, Magid-Katz suggests. This way, she says, the tape is more of a reminder and less restrictive. Some users try basic surgical tape from the pharmacy. She recommends doing an initial trial run for a short period of time during the day or early evening, when you are awake and calm.Once you apply the tape, put your tongue to the roof of your mouth and breathe through your nose slowly. You can even do this with the help of a meditative breathing app.If it does not feel right for you, dont do it, she says. Most importantly, always make sure you are able to breathe through your nose safely.According to Magid-Katz, some people do find mouth taping combined with over-the-counter nose strips (which are worn outside the nose and help open the sinus passages) to be effective. (You can also use nasal dilators, which go inside the nostrils.)And while Magid-Katz says mouth taping could work for some, Rotenberg says hes firmly against mouth taping. Thats because mouth breathing is usually caused by some kind of obstruction, so taping the mouth shut without an understanding of what the source of obstruction is in the first place doesnt really make sense. Its not as if you can psychologically trick yourself to overcome nasal allergies or a deviated septum, he says.

What to do if youre a mouth breather

Instead of mouth taping, Rotenberg says its a better idea to go see your healthcare provider to figure out what the actual source of the obstruction is and treat that instead. There are lots of safe and proven solutions, you just need to have the correct diagnosis first, he says. Allergies, for example, can be treated with nasal steroid sprays, while surgery is an option for polyps or a deviated septum.Magid-Katz also recommends speaking to a physician or dentist who is knowledgeable when it comes to the airway. Its important to make sure the nasal passage is clear and the dental arches allow for proper nasal breathing, she says, and you can also talk to a myofunctional therapist who can help strengthen and retrain the muscles. Some dental appliances are designed to help children and adults correct the habit as well. For some people, the more they breathe through their nose the clearer and easier it gets, so the first thing to do is become more conscious of it, she says. Try setting your phone alarm periodically throughout the day as a reminder to think about whether your mouth is open and how youre breathing, or have a friend or loved one look at you periodically and note if your mouth is open. Set aside time each morning and night to practice proper breathing techniques.Next: Can a Weighted Blanket with Cooling Tech Help Me Sleep (and Not Over-Heat)?

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A Field Guide to Your Vaginal Microbiome https://www.besthealthmag.ca/article/vaginal-microbiome/ Tue, 18 Apr 2023 11:30:30 +0000 https://www.besthealthmag.ca/?p=67183877 And to the many interrelated microorganisms inside that can affect your overall health. Come on in, the water is...self-cleaning and has a low pH.

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The microbes that naturally flourish in our nether regions are team players: They support a delicate equilibrium and help to keep our reproductive organs healthy. Though scientists have known for over a century that the vaginas microbiology is complex, they are just starting to crack the microscopic code of what keeps it balanced and what throws it out of whack. Just like with gut bacteriawhich have been linked to a plethora of issues including weight gain and mood disordersthe vaginas particular microbial mix is now thought to play a role in mediating the risk of certain cancers, protecting against STIs and vaginal infections and, potentially, bringing pregnancies to term.(Related: Are Your Bath Products Bad for Your Vag?)Like plenty of things bits-related, the vaginal microbiome gets swinging during puberty. (The microbes are thought to proliferate as estrogen shoots up, though more research is needed to confirm this link.) Thats when lactobacilli, a type of bacteria that produces lactic acid, start getting cozy in the female sex organs. The Lactobacillus crispatus variety(which experts call L. crisp, aka the Queen Bee of vag bacteria) helps create an ideal vaginal pH below 4.5.(Researchers think these lactobacilli may originate in the gut and find their way to the vagina because of its proximity to the anusa totally normal biological phenomenon, and nothing to worry about.) An acidic environment is necessary for vaginas to keep them better protected from invading bacteria and fungi. In many women, L. crisp will make up 95 percent of the vaginal microbiome. Unlike in the gut, which is home to a thick layer of mucus, bacteria in the vaginal canal live directly on its internal epithelial tissue.Hints about the vaginas microbiological complexity first showed up under microscopes in the early 1900s, when scientists were baffled by the rod-shaped lactobacilli and deposits of glycogen (a form of glucose) they were seeing in these tissues. Glycogen plays a role in the bodys energy storage and is usually found in the liver, so scientists were surprised to find it in the vagina, explains Laura Sycuro, an assistant professor at the University of Calgarys Cumming School of Medicine who runs a research group that investigates the vaginal microbiome. More than a century later, researchers are still working to prove their hypothesis (and, due to chronic underfunding, it continues to be a hypothesis) that glycogen feeds the lactobacilli. What researchers like Sycuro are starting to understand is that this living environment is constantly in flux, as its altered by things like menstrual flow, pregnancy, menopause or the exchange of bodily fluids.

Why the microbiome matters

Thanks to millennia of medical literature dominated by male voices, theres a fundamental and pernicious misunderstanding of how female bodies work. For example, drawing on Ancient Greek ideas, physician and chemist Edward Jorden claimed in a 1603 text that uteruses were prone to…wandering. Then there was the 19th-century belief that women shouldnt board trains because travelling at more than 50 miles per hour could make our uteruses shoot out of our bodies (yes, really). We may now have at least basic female anatomy figured out, but womens health continues to be underexamined, and the vaginal microbiome in particular remainsunnecessarilyan enigma. Researchers still have to fight for funding and are often faced with surprising ignorance when it comes to female biology. Reviewers fundamentally did not believe me that bacterial vaginosis, or BV, is caused by bacteria, and Im like, okay, so this is 30 years of clinical research, says Sycuro. (The review panel insisted that fungi are also a major player in vaginosis, but Sycuro says thats complete nonsense.)Every year, bacterial vaginosisan infection thats intimately linked to the vaginal microbiomeaffects about 30 percent of vagina-havers worldwide and costs health-care systems billions of dollars in doctor visits and treatment. BV is more common than yeast infectionsits responsible for 40 to 50 percent of diagnosed vaginitis infectionsand its tied to both preterm births and HIV infection. (Studies show that BV increases the risk of HIV infection in women by 60 percent.) BVwhich has symptoms such as thin discharge and the occasional fishy smellis often trivialized by the scientific community, says Sycuro, because its not fatal. But its still a hugely disruptive hassle that causes discomfort and, unfortunately, the unwarranted shame that many women feel or associate with their genitalia.BV isnt the only culprit causing issues under our undies, of course. Yeast infections are to blame for another 20 to 25 percent of vaginitis casesbut they arent bacterial, theyre fungal. These infections are caused by yeast overgrowth, and are accompanied by thicker discharge and the occasional itching or burning sensation.And as for those dreaded burn-when-you-pee urinary tract infections, rather than an internal imbalance, they can be caused by a pathogen from the GI tractlike E. coligetting into the urethra and bladder.Unlike yeast infections, for which you can get over-the-counter anti-fungal creams, treatments for BV are limiteda prescription for antibiotics is the only option, and it comes with its own slew of potential issues. Once [patients] are in that loop, every time they take antibiotics, they have a 50 percent chance of needing the antibiotics again within six to 12 months, says Sycuro. Antibiotic over-prescription can also increase a persons anti-microbial resistance and alter their gut microbiome diversity. Translation? These medications clear out the bad guys, but they dont necessarily restore perfect balance, and sometimes the bad guys return. Patients end up back at square one, taking more pills that further disrupt the vaginal microbiome.

The cancer connection

Research is underway to examine the vaginal microbiomes role in protecting against sexually transmitted infections like chlamydia, gonorrhea and HIV: Sycuros lab is currently studying whether chlamydia bacteria can attach better to a receptor when certain other bacteria are present. This is especially important because some research findings suggest that chlamydia is associated with a higher risk of ovarian cancer.Compared to, say, prostate cancer, says Sycuro, female-specific diseases such as ovarian, uterine and cervical cancers are understudied, and harder to detect at early stages. While prostate cancer can be detected early through blood tests, women dont have that luxury when it comes to ovarian and uterine cancer: An estimated 1,950 of the 3,000 Canadian women diagnosed with ovarian cancer in 2022 were predicted to die, according to the Canadian Cancer Society, mostly due to it being caught too late. (Pap tests only help detect cervical cancer.)

Whats next on the horizon

When it comes to long-term solutions to chronic BV, Sycuro says there is a glimmer of hope. Inspired by fecal transplants used to improve digestive health, scientists are experimenting with transplanting fluid from healthy vaginas into ones with chronic BV. This procedure is still in the clinical trial phase, with research underway in places like the Kwon Lab in Cambridge, Massachusetts, and Sycuro estimates it might take another decade for the process to become widely accessible. In the meantime, we need to dodge the savvy marketing behind iffy products that try to fill that medical void and claim to support vaginal wellness.Next: Whats With All the Vaginal Creams, Wipes and Gummies?

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What’s With All the Vaginal Creams, Wipes and Gummies? https://www.besthealthmag.ca/article/vaginal-cream-wipes-gummies/ Tue, 18 Apr 2023 11:00:41 +0000 https://www.besthealthmag.ca/?p=67183880 We asked experts about some “cures” that health influencers and self-proclaimed experts have offered up for supposedly achieving a perfectly balanced vaginal microbiome.

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Kourtney Kardashian recently stepped into this spotlight with a cat-themed marketing campaign designed to convince us that we need to treat our vaginas like a candy store. (HercringeLemme Purr gummies, which are ingested orally, are supposed to support the health of the vagina and make it taste sweeter.)Miracle cures for vaginal imbalances can essentially go unchecked and are still mostly snake oil, Sycuro says. We dont have regulatory bodies that mandate [they] have evidence.The vast majority of creams, sprays and douches are great marketing, and terrible for womens health, because they disrupt the normal balance, adds Money.Our experts blanket recommendations: Stop watching TikTok videos, leave your crotch alone to self-clean (like an oven!) and dont let Gwyneth Paltrow or reality TV stars convince you to put anything up there, jade egg or otherwise.Don’t bother withProbiotic supplements ingested to increase beneficial bacteria in the vaginaThe clinical trials havent been a smashing success yet, says Sycuromeaning anything selling itself as a vaginal microbiome health miracle pill, or claiming to make our private parts fresher, is premature.Do considerBoric acid suppository to balance vaginal acidityThis is one treatment in which Money sees some value, though with a few caveats. Boric acid actually can be quite good as a suppressant of yeast infections and recurrent bacterial vaginosis, she says. But, she emphasizes, you need to seek a professional diagnosis rather than just a Google search resultand get a prescription rather than going DIY.Definitely skipVaginal steaming with herb-infused waterAt this point, you might have a hunch that this is a no-no. Though people use vaginal steaming to allegedly tighten and freshen up the area, overheating your genitals can help bacteria thrive, leading to infections. The cells of the skin on your face [are] dead and hard, and you want to slough them off. But the ones on the surface of the vagina are softer and partially alive […] and vaginal steaming can definitely change how protective and healthy that tissue is, says Sycuro.Please don’t tryYogurtYes, patients do ask Money about smearing yogurt directly into the vagina as a natural probiotic. Her response? Its a great food. Eat it for breakfast and leave it at that.Next: A Field Guide to Your Vaginal Microbiome

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What Can At-Home DIY Test Kits Tell Us About Our Vaginas? https://www.besthealthmag.ca/article/evvy-vaginal-test-kit/ Tue, 18 Apr 2023 11:00:05 +0000 https://www.besthealthmag.ca/?p=67183886 We asked two experts if they're worth adding-to-cart.

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The self-swab test kit Evvy (currently only available in the U.S., at evvy.com) is designed to help women know whats up down there, providing a breakdown of the vaginas bacteria and fungi composition. Evvy highlights the gap in womens health care with taglines like the female body shouldnt be a medical mystery, and tells users theyll be able to catch imbalances before they become infections.How does it work? Users swab themselves and send in the sample for a full analysis, which they receive through an app, along with a game plan of recommendations. Customers can also elect to receive a follow-up call with a certified health coach.(Related: Whats With All the Vaginal Creams, Wipes and Gummies?)Like many femtech innovations, the product definitely taps into an unmet need. But at $129 USD per kit, plus an optional subscription model for follow-up tests and care, the company also makes a pretty penny trying to fill that gap. This allows wealthier women to believe they have a better knowledge of their microbial makeup, but provides few ways to put that information to good use. Plus, theres the subtle suggestion that this is yet another female body part we should feel insecure about. (Wait, should I be more worried about my vagina?)Deborah Money questions the kits usefulness. If you actually have a problem, then you need a diagnosis and a treatment, she says. And if women who complete the kit are ultimately told to talk to their doctors anyway, she worries users are wasting money and time, instead of seeing an OB/GYN in the first place.Laura Sycuro has a theory: Whats at the heart of [this] is women not feeling safe, listened to or validated by their care providers, she says. The fact that we dont feel seen by doctors opens the door for our bodies to be turned into a profit opportunity. Private companies have created countless overpriced for her personal products, but more dangerous than pink-washed soaps and razors is the fact that we remain understudied in many ways, and that includes a lack of understanding how certain diseases can manifest differently in women.Next: A Field Guide to Your Vaginal Microbiome

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When Was the Last Time You Donated Blood? https://www.besthealthmag.ca/article/donate-blood/ Fri, 14 Apr 2023 13:15:40 +0000 https://www.besthealthmag.ca/?p=67183858 Canadians talk a big game about the value of donating blood—60 percent of us said it was important to do—but when it comes to actually rolling up a sleeve, only four (four!) percent of us actually do it. This expert explains why. 

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In June 2022, our national supply of blood was at its lowest in a decade. Thats especially worrying when the inventory has such a short shelf life: six weeks for red blood cells, and just five to seven days for platelets, the tiny cell fragments that help with clotting.Giving blood can be challenging for all sorts of reasons, from the needle itself to the hour-long time commitment to the fact that Canadian Blood Services (CBS) restricts who can donate. Residual fears over the possibility of HIV transmission through transfusions meant that, until 2016, people who were born or had lived in certain African countries, including Nigeria and Chad, were prevented from donating blood, while men who have sex with men had to contend with revolving restrictions, from an outright ban that lasted until 2013 to various abstinence requirements (five years, one year, three months) before last September. As HIV-detection tests improved, and the tests became cheaper and more readily available, these bans became difficult to defend, and CBS has finally scrapped asking questions about gender or sexual orientation. Now, all potential donors are asked to wait at least three months after having anal sex with a new partner (or multiple) before they donate.Evidence has evolved, test technology has advanced and, at the same time, awareness of the importance of an inclusive blood system has increased, says Jennie Haw, a social scientist at the CBS whose research includes non-donor, donor and donation policy and the social and political contexts of donation.Here, Hawexplains why the start of the pandemic was such a banner time for giving blood, why it matters to have donors from a diverse range of ethnic and genealogic communities and why our supply problem probably wont be fixed by handing donors a VR headset.Jennie Haw | donate blood

Lets start with a big one: Why do we need people to donate blood?

So that we have blood and blood products for patients who need it. That can be because of accidents or in trauma care; it can be for many kinds of surgery. There are also conditions for which regular blood transfusion or red-cell exchange is necessary for treatment. Canada has said were going to have a voluntary, unpaid system. And so to meet the needs of patients, we need people to donate blood.

What actually brings people through the door to donate?

When you ask donors why they donate blood, the vast majority say its because they want to help someone else. There is a psychological phenomenon called a warm-glow effect, where people feel good because theyve done something good. Another motivation has to do with social recognition: Its something thats valued in ones community; its considered to have social capital. And then theres a kind of reciprocitysomeone might know someone who needed blood, so they want to contribute, too.

At the very start of the pandemic, there was a surge in blood donations in Canada. Do crises tend to galvanize people?

Absolutely. Across most national emergencies, youll see an upswing in people wanting to help. In the States, after 9/11, there was a massive outpouring of people donating blood, and I know when there are bushfires in Australia, people turn out as well. A colleague and I did a small study in the early days of the pandemic to understand the experiences of people coming out to donate. We found that, for a lot of donors, this was an important opportunity for them to be able to actually interact safely with people who werent in their household. Maintaining community was important to them, and this was a way to do that.

Why dont people donate? What makes it a challengeor makes it unappealingfor them?

Right now, as restrictions have loosened, I think people have other activities they could be involved in. But more broadly, its a really interesting puzzle, and an area where I think we need more research. Its definitely easier to ask someone why do you do this? than it is to understand a phenomenon where something isnt being done. One way to study why people dont donate is to look at barriers to donation. It could be a lack of knowledge of the process of blood donationso not quite understanding how to register, what happens when blood is drawn, what happens to the blood afterward. There can be barriers at a personal level, like a fear of needles. And then there can be systemic barriers, like a lack of trust with the blood operator and a lack of trust with the health-care system, which extends to a lack of trust in the blood system.

There have also been outright bans on certain donorsfor example, men who have sex with men, or, up until 2016, anyone born in specific African countries. What impact did those restrictions have on donor engagement?

I havent studied that restriction specifically, but sometimes when eligibility criteria change, people dont necessarily know and it can take time for people affected to be aware of that change.

But when CBS changes a policy about donation, shouldnt it be responsible for outreach to the people affected?

This is kind of outside the scope of the work I do. But I think any institution or organization asking for people to come and participate voluntarily would want to make sure that the general public knows when there are changes to eligibility criteria.

Why is it important to have donors from different backgrounds?

For a condition like sickle cell disease, one of the treatments is regular blood transfusion or red-cell exchange. And for people who have more rare blood types or are frequently transfused, the closer the blood type matches with the donor, the better the health outcomes. Because blood antigens are inherited, youre more likely to find a close blood-type match with someone who shares an ethnic ancestry. This doesnt mean that you can only donate to someone of the same ethnic ancestrybut the more ethnically diverse the donor base, the better positioned Canadian Blood Services is to find close matches for the very diverse population that they serve.

How can we make donor screening as inclusive as possible?

It takes a multidisciplinary approach and a team of people to move donor screening toward inclusivity in a safe way. It requires clinicians and epidemiologists to look at the various risk factors and how to ensure the safety of the blood supply. Plus social scientists to examine the questions asked to be sure they are understandable and accessible. For example, in September, a change was made to ask about sexual behaviour regardless of gender or sexual orientation, and to be more inclusive of gay, bisexual and other men who have sex with men. But its a big challenge. And there isnt necessarily a one-size-fits-all answer.

What about just paying people for their blood?

I know theres research being done on incentives to donation, and paying donors is one of those options. I dont know what the impact of paying donors would be.

Speaking of incentives: Las Vegas just introduced a virtual-reality experience for donors. Maybe Canadian Blood Services wants to look into that?

I didnt know about Las Vegas incorporating VR, but if it was going to happen somewhere, itd be Vegas. Its important to keep in mind that the U.S. has a very different system than we have here in Canada. There has been some research looking into whether providing donors with added informationlike their cholesterol levels or blood pressuremakes a difference in donor retention, and I think the jury was out on that. I can see how exciting, attractive measures might help a very pressing blood shortage in the moment. But understanding peoples motivations and the social norms underpinning a voluntary blood-donation systemits just a vast area of research. I dont think its going to be solved through VR.Next: How Mental Illness Shapes Our Identities

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How One Woman Connects to Her Culture Through Gardening https://www.besthealthmag.ca/article/how-to-grow-nigerian-vegetables-in-canada/ Thu, 13 Apr 2023 17:20:39 +0000 https://www.besthealthmag.ca/?p=67183853 Ronke Edoho grows ingredients at her home in Saskatoon that are hard to source in Canada but are essential to her favourite Nigerian meals. Through her company, Jollof Code, she teaches you how to do the same.

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This story is part of Best Healths Preservation series, which spotlights wellness businesses and practices rooted in culture, community and history.When Ronke Edoho moved to Canada from Nigeria more than 15 years ago, one of the first things she noticed was the fruit for sale in grocery stores. The apples were perfect, round and glistening. Sometimes they had travelled a long distance to get to the aisles of her local market in Saskatchewan. This was strange for Edoho, whose food had previously come from her grandparents backyard in Kwara State, Nigeria. I always felt like I was only one step removed from my food source, she says. But in Canada, the fruit and vegetables looked nothing like the ones she pulled out of that backyard growing up. Everything was packaged; nothing was misshapen.So, in 2013, when Edoho got married and bought a home in Saskatoon, she started a backyard garden to connect with her childhood experience. She began by planting tomatoes and peppers, then moved on to ingredients that are hard to source in Canada but are essential to her favourite traditional Nigerian meals. She planted amaranth greens, a leafy vegetable thats a staple ingredient in Nigerian dishes like efo riro, a vegetable soup cooked with palm oil. Next, she experimented with jute leaves and waterleaf, which are used in soups like ewedu and edikang ikong and eaten with pounded starches like yam or cassava.Edoho already had a successful food blog called 9jafoodie (9ja is colloquial shorthand for Nigeria) and an active online community where she shared Nigerian recipes. So when she started posting pictures of the haulon Instagram, she was inundated with requests. People started asking, Is this something I can do for myself? Can you teach me how to do it? says Edoho. In 2021 she launched a new website, Jollof Code, as a shop, educational resource centre and visual diary of her own gardening journey. She shares videos of how she builds her garden beds and the progress of her fruits and vegetables. And, in addition to selling seeds for Nigerian vegetables like garden egg and waterleaf, she also offers courses on how to grow those vegetables anywhere in the world.So far, despite the challenges of growing Nigerian vegetables in chilly Canada, Edoho has been successful with her gardenbut not without hard work and experimentation.I wanted the authentic flavour of some of those things, [so] I went into the research. Like, what is the growing season? she says. And then I started experimenting with different kinds of soil and watering cycles. When she noticed that ladybugs loved to snack on her amaranth greens, for example, Edoho grew morethe insects act as a form of pest control against other, more harmful critters in her garden. For vegetables like Nsukka pepper, which thrives in the tropical weather of southeastern Nigeria, Edoho works around Saskatoons frigid winter and short summer by starting the seeds indoors as early as February, then transferring them outdoors when the weather warms up.On top of learning how to grow Nigerian food, people are looking for a way to connect with home, says Edoho. Its not just food for nourishment. Its a connection to a time in the past. She uses her platform to share knowledge about specific cultural foodsknowledge that is often lost with immigration. I feel like my generation are like city folks two generations in. A lot of people didnt have the opportunity to grow up on a farm or around chickens or goats. I love sharing that knowledge, she says.Edoho also relishes the chance to share what Nigerian food is like. As a student at the University of Saskatchewan, she started blogging to dispel misconceptions about Nigerian food that media organizations in North America and Europe often present as facts: I still remember one [article] vividly that said African food is made with poorer qualities of goat, beef and fish. The statement shocked and annoyed her, so she decided to do something about it. Theres a lot the West does not know about us. And our food is just one [thing], says Edoho. I wanted to start something to educate people about the richness of the food. My dad tells me all the time: If something is not the way you like it, either you fix it, or you keep quiet. Luckily for fans of Nigerian food and gardening, Edoho spoke out.This story is part of Best HealthsPreservation series, which spotlights wellness businesses and practices rooted in culture, community and history. Read more from this series here:


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The Unique Way This Female Fitness Instructor Uses Movement and Compassion to Support Women https://www.besthealthmag.ca/article/caroline-macgillivray-vancouver-pole-dance-barre-aerial-hammock/ Tue, 04 Apr 2023 11:00:12 +0000 https://www.besthealthmag.ca/?p=67183777 The common threads in Caroline MacGillivray's approach to health and happiness? Connection, human touch and helping others feel beautiful and comfortable in their bodies.

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Caroline MacGillivray believes in the healing power of movementfrom the way she moves her body as an instructor for pole dance, barre, and aerial hammock stretch classes, to the movement she started when she founded Beauty Night Society. Its a Vancouver-based organization that empowers women and children living in poverty and staying in shelters and recovery centres with care, compassion and free wellness and aesthetician services. And its the work thats closest to MacGillivrays community building heart.Now 51, MacGillivray wasnt always athleticshe says she was a shy, geeky kid with poor hand-eye coordination who was picked last in gym class. But she studied ballet, and at age 12 she began helping with beginner skating lessons in exchange for free classes. She loved the freedom she felt on the ice, and she finds a similar sense of whirling, spinning weightlessness and suspension along with feel-good endorphins and a confidence boostin pole dance and aerial fitness.She first discovered pole dance when she was researching a dating column she wrote for a now-defunct community newspaper. At the end of class, she crawled up to the pole and demonstrated what she learned and was soon invited back as an instructor. MacGillivray is someone who exudes love and care for others, even though her own health has been up and down lately: A year ago, she was diagnosed with chronic myelogenous leukemia (CML) and had to take a temporary step back from her busy teaching schedule and from her in-person beauty events to protect her compromised immune system. (She still worked behind the scenes, running the organization and doing outreach.)One pandemic silver lining has been virtual classes: MacGillivray leads qi gong, meditation and self-massage workshops from her Cambie Village apartment, setting up her laptop and yoga mat next to her fireplace. Her hairless Sphynx cat, Ripley, often wanders into the Zoom frame. She finds inspiration through a fellow CML patient she met who had recovered enough to plan a multi-day hiking trip along the West Coast Trail on Vancouver Island. The idea that, one day, she too could be strong enough for a hiking adventure has given MacGillivray hope.In the meantime, she takes care of herself with rest and guided meditation, especially when shes doing lots of teaching. Heres what a day in her life looks like.Caroline Macgillivray 27:30AM MacGillivray still teaches an average of 15 to 17 fitness classes a week, though her CML diagnosis has forced her to take it easy when she needs to. Im blessed that, with medication, its a manageable condition. There are side effects, but Im stronger than I think, she says. And I need to celebrate life, because Im alive.Caroline Macgillivray 311:30AM MacGillivray works primarily out of the Mt. Pleasant location of Tantra Fitness. She says that the balance work, spine decompression, mobility and restorative poses of aerial hammock stretch are a great counterpoint to pole dancing, which is more active.Caroline Macgillivray 41:45PM MacGillivray is rarely without a book in her hand, and devours 10 to 15 books a week, so shes a frequent visitor to her public library and many of the Little Free Library drop-off and pickup locations in Vancouver. She only keeps the books that are dearest to her (like her copy of Judy Blumes Are You There God? Its Me, Margaret).Caroline Macgillivray 54:00PM MacGillivray spends about 25 hours a week teaching classes and holding private sessions with her fitness clients, but anywhere from 25 to 40 hours weekly on her Beauty Night Society work. As executive director, she manages orientations, recruiting, volunteer coordination, grant writing and paperwork.Caroline Macgillivray 65:45PM Set-up for Beauty Night begins, with clients arriving just 15 minutes later. Were a well-oiled machine by now, MacGillivray says. Before the pandemic, the organization was serving as many as 300 women a week, but numbers (and shelter capacity limits) have reduced a bit since then.Caroline Macgillivray 76:00PM MacGillivray is half Chinese Canadian, and Cantonese was her first language (her great-great grandparents came to Vancouver during the railway-building era). She practices qi gong, a branch of traditional Chinese medicine that combines massage, acupuncture and at-home exercises, and has recruited qi gong students to volunteer at her events.Caroline Macgillivray 86:30PM MacGillivray originally got the idea for Beauty Night as a volunteer at a Downtown Eastside drop-in centre for sex workers. She remembers a client in distress who wasnt able to lift her arms to do her hair or makeup after showering, so MacGillivray helped the woman feel better about how she looked.Caroline Macgillivray 97:15PM Words of encouragement are displayed on sticky notes during a February Beauty Night event at a Union Gospel Mission shelter on East Cordova Street. In addition to beauty treatments, MacGillivrays organization offers wellness programming and life-skills training sessions.Caroline Macgillivray 107:30PM Volunteers like Samantha Tong (pictured above) are at the heart of Beauty Night, but during the pandemic many volunteers moved away from the Vancouver area. MacGillivray says the organization is slowly rebuilding, and theyre looking for hairdressers, fundraisers, grant writers and marketing specialists.Caroline Macgillivray 118:10PM The team packs up their supplies at the end of the night. I think one of the biggest pieces has always been about the community building, MacGillivray says. She dreams of someday spreading the magic of Beauty Night beyond Vancouver. My next chapter is to look at sustainability. How do we move forward and heal more people?Next: This Yogi Will Make You Want to Take Up Surfing

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I Joined the Navy Reserves at 51 https://www.besthealthmag.ca/article/canadian-navy/ Mon, 27 Mar 2023 11:00:01 +0000 https://www.besthealthmag.ca/?p=67183727 After a tough divorce, I needed a new career. So I bought new running shoes, got two giant bags of rice for lifting and started training in a deserted parking garage. 

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The night I walked into the HMCS Donnacona basea cavernous, nondescript building just south of downtown Montrealfor my enrolment as a 51-year-old Navy recruit, a well-meaning officer mistakenly offered to escort me to the ceremony room, congratulating me on my childs recruitment. His eyes widened as I corrected him. He apologized politely, but this was not the last time I would mumble an explanation to a confused stranger under my breathalways some version of I-know-I-am-old-and-frumpy-and-wearing-a-pink-cardigan-but-I-joined-the-Navy-anyhowwhile somehow both laughing and crying a little bit on the inside.To be fair, not even I fully believed I should be there. Not at first. Four years earlier, in 2018, I had undergone a preventative double mastectomy. (I didnt have breast cancer, but it runs in my family and I swore I would do anything I could to prevent it.) After the surgery, it was truly torturous to do any movement that required more upper-body strength than youd use to open a jar of pickles, so I hadnt exercised in ages. I had also indulged in a lot of pandemic pizza, packing on what I lovingly referred to as my bodys own weighted comfort blanket.Two years before that, I had gone through a tricky divorce (is there any other kind?), which left me feeling defeated, depleted and directionlessa ship without a rudder.I wish I could say it was these huge life changes and a desire to serve my country that led me to the Canadian Armed Forces (CAF), but, if Im being honest, it had far more to do with my bank account. Single again at mid-life, I was in need of a solid career, preferably one with security and a pension. Enter the Canadian government job site.As I scrolled through the listings, my eyes would glaze over as words like data or administrative whipped by. Then I saw something about communications. It went on to mention travel, adventure and a pension. I was intrigued. Naval Communicators establish and manage all external voice, radio-teletype and data circuits, and provide real-time tactical information in support of operations, it read.I focused on the fact that Im a writera professional communicatorwho loves information. How hard could this be? I thought, somewhat naively. Only later did I bother reading the fine print about Basic Training, and learn how hard it is to qualify for the job.For a while, sanity resumed and I went on to apply to a number of landlubbing, pushup-free data admin roles. But something was gnawing away at me, and over the next several weeks I kept clicking back on the original link. What if I told myself I could do this, and believed it? Perhaps its a mid-life clich, but I had just finished reading Big Magic by Elizabeth Gilbert for the umpteenth timea book that explores the idea of living a life that is driven by curiosity rather than fear.I was curious about working for the CAF, which surprised me. I spent ages poring over the website and learning about recent Navy missions, particularly Canadas humanitarian response to the Syrian refugee crisis. And when I later asked the recruiting officers, in person, about the CAFs history of racism, misogyny and sexual misconduct, I was surprised at how candid and painstakingly committed they seemed to being more transparent and more inclusive in order to create a safer workplace for all.(Related: Im a 40-Something-Year-Old Skateboarderand TikTok Sensation)To this day, I still wonder why I kept returning to that website. The truest answer Ive come up with so far is that it made me think, Maybe, when we are feeling helpless, the idea of helping others is all we can cling to. The next steps were clearly outlined: Apply online, take the aptitude test, meet for a one-on-one interview and then pass the gruelling physical FORCE evaluation. This includes a simulation of real-life scenarios that members of the CAF may find themselves in: things like sandbag hauling, sprints and shuttle runs. Easy-peasy, right?I took the required time to recover from my mastectomy surgeries (there were three in total) and slowly started training. I bought a few 30-pound bags of rice to use for lifting, sprung for a new pair of trainers, found a deserted indoor parking lot and made a Beyonc playlist. It felt good to challenge myself physically again and to learn what this new body was capable of. I surprised myself and passed it all, and was offered a job.I decided to join as a part-time naval communicator reserve, rather than as a full-time member of the force, and will complete the rest of my training concurrently over the next four years. This means Ill still get the pension and the adventure, but I will also have the flexibility to decide how much time I spend abroad (a choice those in the regular force do not have). Though my sons, aged 20 and 22, are very independent, Im not ready to live away from them for extended periods yet.I have already completed the first of the three Basic Training modules remotely (it was a series of online units focused on the mission and ethos of the CAF). The second module, which Im halfway through, is three months of in-person workshops and drill instruction. Eventually, Ill head to Quebec City for the final module. This is the one that every army movie depicts: three weeks of climbing, cussing, muddy obstacle courses and marching while carrying a 50-pound backpack, shoulder to shoulder with fellow recruits half my age.Once completed, Ill head to the East Coast for the Navy-specific course, and, finally, an eight-week trade-specific course. Members of the Naval Reserves are only required to participate in weekly training at our local bases, though we can elect to do four months of active missions per year. When the timing is right, Ill have opportunities to explore Canadas coastlines and travel across the world.Its been a year since I enrolled. Though we are a diverse unitfour men, three women, ranging in age from 18 to 51 (me), with varying educational and professional backgroundswe have quickly learned that we need to share our strengths and skills with one another in order to succeed. If my uniform has a visible wrinkle, we all do pushups. Ditto for not taking an order from a superior fast enough. We have to trust one another and follow our commanding officer without question, which is hard for meIve always resisted authority figures and I question everything. Have you ever met a writer before? I seethed, after I was disciplined for asking too many questions. More pushups.I started this journey hyper-focused on myself and what I wanted everyone to see: A Strong-Ass Woman Doing Fine On Her Own. I was worried the others would view me as the oldest, weakest link, but the crows feet around my eyes and the greys sprinkling my ponytail do not earn me a second of grace from the instructors when it comes to dropping and doing planks. And the punishmentseven the pushupshave helped my whole unit develop a keen sense of camaraderie and trust. If we support each other, we do better. If anything, I think me being older, and a mom, has grounded us as a unit. Im not quite bringing homemade bran muffins to drill practices, but I am often the one encouraging those who are struggling to take a moment and refocus.Somewhere along the way, I became far more focused on finding my purpose and developing a sense of teamworklike helping my unit learn how to tie a reef knot properly. (This is a skill my mom actually taught me when I was in Girl Guides, but its quite useful in the Navy!) I may not be the cool kid doing one-handed G.I. Jane-style pushups, but I was able to advocate for my entire squad and successfully petition for paid bonus training sessions for all of us.When I think of my body now, it feels capable and functional. I can run five kilometres without getting winded, and I no longer have to ask one of my sons to open pickle jars for me. And, just last week, my youngest conveniently announced that my not-quite-bulging biceps probably meant I was all clear to resume snow-shovelling duties again.Aside from the physical changes, there have also been smaller, invisible victories: The Navy taught me that my worth and ability to contribute to society in a meaningful way is not tied to my age, my gender or my size. And it also taught me that, even if the direction my life is now taking is not the one I had mapped out one unhappy marriage ago, I am not destined to be lost forever. Im proud to say I am a Naval Reserves recruit, and I dont plan to abandon ship any time soon.Next: This Yogi Will Make You Want to Take Up Surfing

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I’m 43, I’ve Been in Long-Term Relationships and I’m a Virgin By Choice https://www.besthealthmag.ca/article/halal-sex-book-sheima-benembarek/ Tue, 21 Mar 2023 17:16:57 +0000 https://www.besthealthmag.ca/?p=67183657 In her new book "Halal Sex," Sheima Benembarek shares personal stories of Muslim immigrants and their relationships to sex and sexuality. In this chapter, Taslim, a virgin in her forties, shares her experience with inter-faith relationships.

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At around twelve or thirteen years old, Taslim began developing crushes on boys in her class, though they never lasted long. Taslim knew there was no way she could get away with having an actual boyfriend. She couldnt risk getting caught and knew better than to trust anyone at school. I had a friend who was Indian Muslim, same age as me, and she had a boyfriend, and another girl from a very conservative family told on her and tried to get her in trouble. She knew that they were being watched by adults most of the time, even while they socialized. Taslim used to go to the mall, a seven-minute walk from school, always in a group in case there was an auntie there who would report back to her parents. She once got in trouble for walking home with a neighbour simply because he was a boy.At the time, there were unsettling stories circulating about other Muslim girls. One involved a distant relative of Taslim, a second or third cousin, now in her fifties, who was pulled out of school. Taslim was told it was because her cousins older brother graduated from high school and their parents didnt want her there alone. Taslim later learned the truth was the cousins parents caught her with a boyfriend. So, I think for me, school was also this place where you can kind of fuck up and be pulled out and then your whole life is, like, compromised, because what can you do if you dont have school? Youre dependent. And being dependent was Taslims biggest fear.These types of anecdotes ingrained in her a deep apprehension of disappointing her parents. For as long as she can remember, Taslim has erred on the side of caution. Im a bureaucrat, so that makes me even more risk-averse. Its like a circle, she says. Youre risk-averse, so you end up in a risk-averse job, and then you become more risk-averse.Boys werent allowed to call her at home, either, even to ask about homework. In an eleventh-grade physics class, Taslim was the only girl in her lab group and had to get creative in order to receive calls from the boys. She and her girlfriends, who also came from conservative families, came up with strategies to get access to the landline and talk to their male classmates. I would tell the boy to call me at a certain time and Id pick up the phone. Wed have these little tricks. Another girl-friend of mine, who had the same problem, would get the guys sister to call and then the guy would come on the phone, she says with a chuckle. Taslim had friends who were boys, but these friendships remained within the confines of school grounds.There was also a certain amount of embarrassment that came with participating in social events outside of school. Rarely did her parents let her go to parties, and if they did, they chaperoned. Farida once came along to a friends birthday party at a restaurant. Youre almost like, Ill just be a hermit because its less embarrassing, she says and laughs. Living within this framework, Taslim always felt controlled. She remembers often crying herself to sleep at night, wanting more than what was allowed. Her best friends were a mix of Jewish, Chinese, and Indian Muslim girls whose parents also had strict rules for them, even if they werent necessarily religious. The ones who did have boyfriends did so secretly. None, to Taslims knowledge, were having sex. By the end of high school, Taslim had resolved to excel her way out. I was going to do well in university and get a job and be independent. And I really put my eggs in that basket. She refused to let herself be distracted by falling in love or forming lasting friendships. I wanted to make sure I could make decisions, because I was scared I was going to have to marry someone right after university, or before, or whatever. That was the reality for me and for a lot of girls of my generation in that community, she says. She remembers always operating with an underlying fear that at any moment, if she didnt behave as she was expected to, life-altering decisions would be made for her.Things didnt change very much for Taslim during her university studies in Montreal, as she continued living at home with her parents. She had a new schedule, of course, and her classes were all over campus, which made keeping track of her harder for her parents. But she never took advantage of this; she was always where she told them she would be. There were opportunities to develop friendships and a social life, but she was laser-focused on her BA, with the goal of then moving out of her parents house.
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Only after landing a prestigious position in the public sector in Ottawa, at age twenty-five, was Taslim able to leave her native Montreal and parents home to live on her own for the first time. It wasnt terribly difficult getting Imran and Farida on board, however. They were proud of her career development and the good salary it provided in the nations capital; they accepted that she had to move away. Her success made it a little easier for them to swat away the occasional criticism they received from community members and extended family about their daughters Westernized lifestyle as an independent single woman. In any case, they kept an eye on her. They make sure I call every day, she tells me. Theres still a lot of control, like, What are you doing? Where have you been? They know where I am and what Im doing almost all the time.In many ways, Taslim had a new life that she was very pleased withprivacy in her personal affairs, respect at work. For nearly the first two years in Ottawa, Taslim had a roommate, which was a learning experience. She was a really conservative Muslim, a white convert and super religious. She wouldnt even wear heels or open-toed shoes. Shed never wear pants, because pants show your contours and skirts are more modest, she tells me with mild amusement. This was not the open-minded environment Taslim was looking for. She found herself an apartment she could afford on her own.Although Taslim has never been very social, shes made a few friends in Ottawa and has dated a few men. First, there was Paul, a Vietnamese British man, with whom she spent five years. Although she wasnt in love, she grew accustomed to Paul and had feelings of love for him. We didnt have a physical relationship, she says, but we were dating for that many years. That was pretty serious. The relationship ended for a couple reasons. Paul was younger than Taslim, and she felt as though he was still growing up. His parents lived in Ottawa, and he saw them all the time. Although Taslim respected his mother, a highly educated and self-made immigrant, the dynamic was off. I felt like she babied her son, and she was kind of expecting me to make him a grown-up. I knew I couldnt really do that for somebody else.The fact that Taslim wasnt having sex with Paul wasnt a problem in the beginning. They held hands, kissed, and made out. But that was it. I know he wanted to. He did try to initiate it, and then he would stop because he knew I had a line that I wouldnt cross. Her body language was always clear, and if he didnt understand it, she would gently push him off her. Her libido is low in general, and she doesnt know why that is. It could be the medication shes on for her underactive thyroid, which is linked to a low sex drive and arousal issues. Or it could be a remnant of growing up in her Pakistani household. She concedes it could also be a mix of the two.Taslim, who remains a virgin, tells me that the thought of sex scares her. Shes aware there could be a psychosocial element at play here. Her mind is filled with thoughts of doing the right thing in order to be the person her parents expect her to be, which includes being a virgin until marriage. Its possible its just the way she is. I know Im straight, but I think theres an asexual aspect to myself… I havent had intercourse, and its not something I really want to do. Im not drawn to it.She and Paul had conversations on the subject, and although she isnt sure he understood completely, he accepted things for a while. He knew that I felt like I couldnt. In time, it became enough of an issue that it was partly why the relationship didnt work out. On a handful of occasions, shes almost had sex, but she never truly wanted to.The first of these instances she describes almost as assault. Taslim was twenty-nine and was going on dates again after her breakup with Paul. I dont remember all of it. I wasnt drunk or anything like that; I just cant remember parts of it, she says. At the end of this first date, she went back with this man to his apartment, something she wasnt sure she wanted to do. He began trying to do things I didnt want him to do. She remembers fragments: sitting on his couch, being on his bed, the time on his alarm clock reading nine-something, his being very close to her and breathing heavily. But nothing much in between comes back to her. I remember saying, I want to go. And I sat in the car crying. I was very upset. And then he said, Youre like a two-year-old, in front of my condo. He was angry and claimed shed led him on. Taslim cried about this uncomfortable experience for a few days, confused about whether she was responsible for how things went that night. But even in other situations that werent scary or unpleasant, she still always pulled away and froze up.For a few months, Taslim dated Karim, a Moroccan Korean, before figuring out that he was still in love with his ex. She tried dating within her ethnic community, though one date with a South Asian man left a bad taste in her mouth. He complimented me on my skin tone. Because in my culture, its a compliment to comment on someones lighter complexion, she says and shakes her head. Which is pretty sickening. Most of the South Asian men she meets are Hindu rather than Muslim anyway, she explains. Im sure they wouldnt go there, because it would be a big issue for them too.Shes firm about not accepting help finding a partner from her family or community. She doesnt want to be set up on blind dates. The fact that shes so private and introverted makes it harder for her to consider this traditional form of dating. I dont trust people in the community. I dont want people to know anything about me. Once, long ago, an informal auntie sent Taslims mother a photograph of a young man who lived in the city. And I was like, What am I supposed to do? Some random picture of some random person, she scoffs. The idea of meeting a stranger based on an aunties recommendation almost offends her. Taslims stubbornness on this matter was a point of frustration with Farida for many years. After trying to pressure her into it, she gave up. Taslim staunchly prefers meeting men on her own. If theres someone, theres someone, Taslim says with a shrug.The year after things ended with Paul, Taslim met Tom. They worked in the same office, doing similar work in different departments, and slowly built a platonic friendship. After Toms contract was up, they went for dinner and began to pursue a romantic relationship. Even with Tomwho was loving, patient, and committed to herTaslim couldnt bring herself to have intercourse. The conversation came up a lot: Tom wanted to have a sexual relationship, as well as children, with Taslim. While he understood her strict religious background, the fact that her sexual desire for him was low remained very frustrating for him, especially five years in. But there was little that Taslim could do about it; her sex drive wasnt improving, and her comfort level with having sex wasnt changing.The couple had separate apartments for most of their relationship, but in the fourth year, Tom moved into hers. They decided to give building a life together a real shot. But living with a lover without a sexual component isnt easy to navigate, Taslim acknowledges. They had to come up with their own rules, negotiate comfort levels, and communicate a lot. On their therapists suggestion, they tried taking showers together as a form of intimacy. Taslim didnt enjoy it. I just felt it was uncomfortable and claustrophobic. I felt anxious. They cuddled in bed and slept together, unless he snored and she kicked him out, she tells me with a laugh. The furthest they ever went was oral sex. Taslim didnt feel attracted enough to the idea of reciprocating, but Tom performed it on her a handful of times. My body obviously enjoyed it. I dont know mentally if I responded to it because I felt disconnected. I felt like it was happening to me. I knew it was happening to me. But I was not in it. I didnt really feel present, she says.It reminded her of how sexual activities felt with Paul. Although he never pushed her to do anything she didnt want to do, whenever things turned sexual, she would have a visceral pullback reaction. Like Id touched something hot, and Im like, Whoa! Although Taslim never felt the urge to have sex while sleeping in the same bed as Tom, she thought a lot about it. Like, we should be doing thiswe have a good relationship, we like each other, we connect mentally. I always felt like there was a wall, she says, something that keeps us not really fully feeling like were a unit together. Even when they kissed, she would feel some reluctance in her, some distance.How did Tom feel about not having intercoursea cornerstone of heterosexual sexwith the woman hed been in a loving relationship with for years? It was hard for him to fully accept it, Taslim shares. It wore him down and made him sad. He accused her of seeing him only as a friend. In couples therapy, the idea came up that Taslim is resistant. Its been hard for us to deal with thatits been eating away at us.Tom tried to remain empathetic and understand that this is bigger than Taslimto understand that shes trying to go against an entire religious system. It has nothing to do with him and everything to do with me, Taslim laments. He knows that my parents have been strict. That I had a conservative code for what was okay or not in my interactions with men, what I could wear, who I could see, where I could go, who I could go with. He knows all those restrictions, and that in my head I still have all those limitations even though I have the freedom that I never had for many years. He knows I still feel like Im in a cage.

The breaking point came when Taslims parents met Tom. Around her birthday, the year that Tom moved in with Taslim, Farida and Imran were visiting their daughter for the day when Taslim decided it was time to introduce Tom. But Taslims parents were too angry and upset to even shake his hand. They were pretty shocked and taken aback, Taslim tells me. There was a lot of yelling and screamingWho is he? Hes not Muslim!directed at both of them. Taslim began to cry. The yelling was mostly in English, but Urdu was peppered throughout. Tom tried to explain how much he cared for and loved Taslim. Farida and Imran wouldnt listen. Farida decided that Tom must be using Taslim for money. Imran, on the other hand, was just very disappointed. I felt like my parents kind of violated my boundaries. They went through stuff, went through my closet. They saw that Toms belongings were everywhere before Taslim even had a chance to explain that shed asked him to live with her. Taslims parents demanded that she break up with Tom. Imran even came back to make sure hed moved out of her apartment.Tom, who hails from Vancouver, is a white man roughly twenty years older than Taslim and a divorcee. Most importantly to her parents, hes not Muslim. None of this mattered to Taslim. For a long time, she considered marrying him; theres a local imam in Ottawa willing to marry Muslim women and non-Muslim men. In Islamic jurisprudence, a Muslim man has the right to marry a non-Muslim woman but not the other way around. This precept operates on the understanding that in addition to the faith passing on from the paternal side, men have the necessary authority to convert their non-Muslim women, or at the very least guarantee raising Muslim children.I have a friend who did that. Shes in a common-law relationship with a non-Muslim man, and she reached out to that imam, Taslim says. She takes comfort knowing shes not the only Muslim woman to have a relationship with a non-Muslim man in her community. She asked this progressive imam to provide her with supporting material or information regarding this law that she could use to sway her parents. Im trying to become more assertive about this, she says with a timid smile.But after the meeting with Taslims parents, the couple is no longer planning to get married. Tom moved to Taslims old condowhich she still owns and was renting outwhile they figured out their next move. Its kind of a haze, because it was such a difficult experience. It was insane. I got so traumatized, and then I feltI dont think this is necessarily true, this is the way I see thingslike maybe Tom wasnt as strong for me as he could have been. I felt alone on this little boat, in the middle of the ocean, trying to defend this whole thing.Taslim wants the tension to be over, not the relationship. But doubt has taken root in her. Were in a strange place, she explains. Things got really tense between us. I felt very tense with him around. Taslim realized that for her own mental well-being, she needed to pull back and prioritize herself. She needed to figure things out, including if she could ever stand up to her parents or if her relationship with Tom was worth that. I think my parents really gave me a lot of anxiety and depression over it. Being pulled in two different directions by the most important people in her life was very stressful for Taslim. Indecision was paralyzing her, and she could no longer decipher what her feelings were, distinct from those of Tom and her parents. Distance was the only way she could cope.But ever since the pandemic hit, hes been here more often than not. Because hes been my one-person-you-can-see kind of person, she says. Shes only been to see her parents in Montreal a handful of times since the onset of COVID-19. She describes her relationship with Tom now as in a limbo stage. Were not together, but were kind of together. Protecting herself in this way has led to many days of loneliness, and the social distancing rules of the pandemic have only heightened that feeling. She hasnt been maintaining her friendships, which tend to have boundaries. Only when things are dire does she open up about her personal life to friends. Although Taslim does respond to those who reach out, she admits, I dont feel the same closeness. I dont know whats going to happen with some friendships. As a naturally very, very internal person, she finds it difficult to share things with people. She doesnt see the value in it eitherafter all, her problems are her problems, and no one is going to solve them for her. And even at work, connections dont come easy. Two weeks into the pandemic, she began a new job and to this day hasnt met any of her colleagues in person. Its just constant alienation.Some days, she considers giving her relationship with Tom another go. But they had other obstacles beyond her parents: their age gap, his finances. She remembers these things and reverts to not being ready for change. There are times when I feel buoyed by him, but there are times when I feel depleted. My parents have . . . I still have so much fear in my head about the whole thing. After the blowout with her parents, Taslim couldnt make personal decisions with conviction. Roughly two years later, she hasnt completely recovered her self-confidence.Even talking about the memory triggers her body to tense up. Its just like a paralysis. Like suddenly youre being railroaded. And I know Tom felt that too. He was shocked that it was that kind of reaction. Taslim believes her parents were deeply ashamed that she had chosen a non-Muslim partner and was living with him outside of wedlock. Taslim tells me that during the blow-up she volunteered information about her virginity, wanting to beat them to the punch. I told them that I hadnt. I just said that of my own volition. She knew where the conversation was headed.I definitely have some anger and resentment. Im trying not to, because Id rather take that energy and push through and do something for myself thats better. Everyones a product of their environment, circumstances, upbringing. But its difficult. Especially with the sexuality side of it. To cope with the stress of her personal life, Taslim has thrown herself further into her job, working for nearly twelve-hour stretches. It was crazy, but I think it saved me from dealing with my parents.Although she and Tom are still officially broken up, Taslim doesnt want her parents to visit. Tom occasionally stays over and some of his things are still around. Her brother, Atiq, also believes she was lost in this inter-faith relationship and not thinking logically. No one in my family supports me, she says. So the pandemic, which has kept her family away in Montreal, continues to serve as a boundary.9780735244221Excerpted from Halal Sex by Sheima Benembarek. Copyright 2023 Sheima Benembarek. Published by Viking Canada, a division of Penguin Random House Canada Limited. Reproduced by arrangement with the Publisher. All rights reserved.Next: I Need You to Know: All Vulvas Are Beautiful

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This Tech Pro Says AI Is Ready to Revolutionize Our Health Care in Canada https://www.besthealthmag.ca/article/artificial-intelligence-and-canadian-health-care/ Mon, 20 Mar 2023 11:00:37 +0000 https://www.besthealthmag.ca/?p=67183643 Tech strategist Azra Dhalla shares how artificial intelligence can improve Canada’s health care system.

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With Canadas health care system in such disarray, it might be time to call in the machines. Currently, there are more than 300 homegrown startups working on health innovations fuelled by artificial intelligence, from smartphone tools that judge the severity of a wound to a handheld digital device that detects cardiac disease to a platform that predicts the global spread of viruses like COVID and monkeypox. While most of these systems arent ready for rollout quite yetthough in some Toronto hospitals, AI is already flagging at-risk patients who may require a transfer to the ICUtheyre poised to make a big impact in health care soon.To better understand what this future could look like, we spoke with Azra Dhalla, the Director of Health AI Implementation at Torontos Vector Institute for Artificial Intelligence. AI has tremendous capabilities, but its transformative powers have yet to be fully realized in health, and thats what were trying to change, she says. So were working with hospitals, health care agencies and academia to take this world-class research and translate it into something thats really tangible. Here, Dhalla discusses AIs potential to bring hospital wait times way down, the need for more diverse health data and why a robot probably wont be the one tinkering with your wonky knee.

Before we get to the future of health care, are there places where AI is already being used in medicine?

Yes. Theres ChartWatch, which focuses on predictive analytics. Its an early-warning system that pulls vitals from patients in the internal-medicine ward to predict whether a transfer to the ICU or a death will occur. So the predictive power of these solutions can really lead to improved decision-making and the ability to intervene early.

What about other AI models working away in the background?

There are some, but I would say that in health care, very few models have been deployed in a clinical setting. Health care has a number of challenges, especially when were dealing with datawe have to be very stringent about security, about privacy, about confidentiality. The thing with AI algorithms is that, similar to how you and I learn, AI algorithms get better as more data is provided. But that can only happen if we can actually get access to it, which is very difficult in health care. However, weve partnered with Gemini, a data collaborative of more than 30 hospitals data in Ontario, the largest of its kind in Canada, and thats allowed Vector researchers to develop cutting-edge AI models and solutions, including studies related to COVID-19.

What are some of those projects in development right now?

Id say there are three areas worth highlighting: personalized medicine, drug discovery and creating a more efficient health system. With personalized medicine, algorithms can help us predict illness and support patients long-term. So, for example, you can use AI to predict Alzheimers disease based on changes to speech patterns. Or you could use it to discover insights within imaging data that can guide treatment and therapy decisions for patients with breast cancer. With drug discovery, AI can analyze pharmacological and health data to find different combinations of drugs that can be used to target existing and emerging viruses, or treat conditions that the drug might not have originally been prescribed for. And with health systems, it could help alleviate wait times faced by patients in hospitals, which is a big issue in Canada right now. When you bring in AI, the potential for us to better allocate resources, both in terms of staffing and funding, is fantastic and leads to better patient outcomes.

On the other hand, what isnt going to happen with AI and health care? You must hear some pretty wild theories when people find out what you do.

One thing is that AI is not going to replace a physicianit will augment clinical decision-making, but it wont replace it. Its more like a virtual second opinion, not meant to override human judgement or expertise.

So Im not going to roll up for knee surgery and find a robot about to perform it on me?

WellI cant predict the future. But I dont think thats going to happen.

What do you hear from doctors and health care practitioners when you talk to them about AI?

They really do want to know how were using AI to revolutionize health care, and they want to know not just on a theoretical level but a practical level. How can they use these solutions in a clinical setting? What does it mean for patient care overall? Thats always their number-one questionwell, actually, Ill say there are two questions. Number one, will it be disruptive to my workflow? And the second is, what are the outcomes that can be produced for a patient?

What worries them about their workflow?

What they say is: We dont want another button to press. We want it to be very seamless. And also they worry whether this all happens in a black box. Explainability in AI is very importantwe dont want to just use this blindly. So if an algorithm makes some kind of decision, we need to know how it has actually come up with that decision.

We hear a lot about bias in AI. How can bias skew an algorithms results?

You hear the expression garbage in, garbage out. AI algorithms will always reinforce bias if the data theyre trained on is biased. If were looking at a pool of health care data that is only representative of a certain segment of the population

Say, white men of a certain age?

Thats right. Then when you try to apply the AI model to a different or a more diverse population segment, it doesnt work, or it wont work in the same way. A good example is an image-recognition model that wasnt able to recognize melanoma in patients with different skin types, because the model wasnt trained on data that was representative of the whole population. I will say that theres much work being done on responsible AI, making sure that we correct for inherent biases.

And how do we do that?

By ensuring that theres access to very diverse data. And then by looking at that data to really say when it isnt representative of an entire population, so that if there are inherent biases, we can correct that at the forefront. We also want to make sure our models work for everyone. So in AI implementation, we do these silent trials, where we test out the solution in, say, a hospital, before it goes into practice. Because we dont want to just say, hey, this tool works fantastically, were gonna implement it now. Being able to pilot it is extremely important.

People are understandably quite anxious about the state of Canadian health care. What do you see as the potential for these AI programs, whenever they do get rolled out?

I truly believe that AI has transformative benefits for patients. There is a machine learning model that can create radiation therapy treatment plans for patients with prostate cancer. That can take a clinician more than a day to develop, and the model produces plans within hours that are deemed to be as good as or even better, nine times out of 10. If I were a patient, this is exactly what Id want: something that creates efficiencies and frees up resources so that I not only have a personalized treatment plan soonerbut I get to spend more time with my physician. Thats extremely beneficial to a patients quality of life and the quality of care they receive.This interview has been edited and condensed.Next: The Forces That Shape Health Care for Black Women

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Why Does My Partner Only Touch Me When They Want Sex? https://www.besthealthmag.ca/list/relationship-advice-why-does-my-husband-only-touch-me-when-he-wants-sex/ https://www.besthealthmag.ca/list/relationship-advice-why-does-my-husband-only-touch-me-when-he-wants-sex/#comments Thu, 16 Mar 2023 11:00:13 +0000 https://www.besthealthmag.ca/list/relationship-advice-why-does-my-husband-only-touch-me-when-he-wants-sex/ Experts share three ways to change that.

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affectionate,relationship,Couple,hugging,on,a,pierIf its been a while since your partner held your hand, gave you a big squeeze or tapped your butt like they used to without trying to initiate sex, congratulations! Youre in a completely normal relationship, according to Carlyle Jansen, a Toronto-based sex therapist. Its a problem she hears most from women in heterosexual relationships, in which they feel their male partners only approach them when they want to get it on. Although this is very normal, theres no reason anyone should settle for less touch if you’re craving more frequent, playful displays of affection.Being touched in non-sexual ways is importantstudies show it leads to greater satisfaction, greater emotional intensity and stronger communication in a relationship. According to a 2016 survey by the Kinsey Institute, 87 percent of people in committed relationships rated touch as very or extremely important to building intimacy, but 34 percent said their partner doesnt touch them enough.Jansen says when a person only touches their partner when they want sex, the partner can develop negative feelings towards them and their libido can take a dip. Then, the initiating partner can feel hurtand any efforts to have sex begin to carry negative energy, says Jansen.Theres no single reason this happens to couples, but common causes include simple logistics (busy schedules making it difficult to find the time) or feeling touched out (having children attached to your hip all day).More often than not, it comes down to communication problems. Heres what to do.

Get Touchy-Feely

You know the old adage, treat others how you want to be treated? Apply that here. Touch your partner throughout the day to show them how much and how often youd like to be touched. It might not be easyJansen says that the partner who wants more touching may not want to put in more effortbut it could be whats needed to build the non-sexual habits you desire.

Spell It Out

If your partner just isnt getting the message, Williams suggests saying something direct like: I love when you kiss my neck when we make dinner because it feels sensual and loving. Tell them what you like, and why you like it, she says. If a couple knows what messages theyre sending to one another through touch, theyll be more interested in intimating touch in the first place.While this tactic could make someone feel like theyre being forced to show affection, this straightforwardness is actually healthy for the relationship. Providing a suggestion, solution, and positive reinforcement leads to a stronger bond, says Williams.

Find the Issue

Lack of touch could be a sign of a deeper issue. I may be less physical with my partner when I am tired, whereas you may be less physical with your partner when theres something bigger going on, says Williams. The same behaviour can have an entirely different meaning. If communication doesnt work, it could be a good idea to book time with a therapist or counsellor. There could be any number of reasons why youve been feeling touch-starved, but you wont know until you do the work to find out.Next: It Is Reassuring to Be Loved Again: The Joy of Finding Love After 70

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Waiting Until Age 50 for Mammograms Is Too Late—Especially for Black Women https://www.besthealthmag.ca/article/black-women-and-breast-cancer/ Mon, 13 Mar 2023 11:00:49 +0000 https://www.besthealthmag.ca/?p=67183589 Canada’s national breast cancer screening guidelines advise waiting until age 50 for regular mammograms. But many experts, researchers and patients say this approach is too little, too late—especially for Black women.

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Black women and breast cancer
Heather Campbell, a chemical engineer who lives in Calgary, was 44 and had never had a mammogram when she found a lump in her left breast.
Every morning, after completing her skincare regimen, Heather Campbell would rub her fingers in small circles around her breasts, feeling for any changes. On the morning of Friday, October 13, 2017, when she was 44, her fingers bumped against a hard bulge on the side of her left breast. Shocked, Campbell stopped, palpated the lump again and decided shed wait a day before she worried. Breasts change all the time, she told herself. Then she headed to her downtown Calgary office, where she worked as a chemical engineer. The next morning, she checked her breast once more. The lump was still there.On Monday, she called her doctor and got an urgent referral for a diagnostic mammogram. Campbell had never had a screening mammogram, which is the best way to detect breast cancer early and is known to reduce deaths from the disease. Canadas national guidelines, last updated in 2018, recommend that women without a family history of breast cancer have mammograms every two to three years, starting at age 50. Campbell was not due to begin screening for another six years.She remembers standing there, nervous and topless, with her breast squeezed between two plates. The mammogram was immediately followed by an ultrasound. Afterward, as Campbell sat in the screening room without a shirt or bra on, a radiologist came in and told her: We have concerns.I was like, what are you talking about? This is insane, says Campbell. Cancer didnt run in her family. She was four months into a dream job at AESO, Albertas electric system operator, working on their renewable electricity program. She was dating a man she liked, and she still hoped to have children. Campbell returned to her office, sat down in her cubicle and shook, whispering her worst fears into the phone as she spoke to a friend.After that, everything moved quickly: a biopsy; a diagnosis of invasive ductal carcinoma, the most common type of breast cancer; then referrals to a surgeon, a medical oncologist, a chemotherapy support class and a fertility clinic.Over the next six months, Campbell received a half-dozen rounds of chemotherapy, followed by a partial mastectomy that removed 45 percent of her left breast. Staff at the fertility clinic told her that, because of her age, her eggs could not be frozen. Because her breast cancer was estrogen positivemeaning the presence of the hormone in her body contributed to its spreadthe medication used to stimulate her ovaries to harvest her eggs would have also stimulated her cancer, making it worse.(Related: How to Do a Self Breast Exam)In June 2018, she began a three-week regimen of daily radiation treatments, with Saturdays and Sundays off. To reduce her estrogen levels, she had a full hysterectomy and oophorectomy in July 2020.Campbell believes that if she had been screened earlier, she would have been diagnosed at an earlier stage, and spared some of the painful treatments that left her scarred, infertile and too sick to continue at her job.If I had been screened at 40, I probably would have had a little lumpectomy. Maybe a radiation or two, says Campbell. I might have still had children.Campbell is one of many patients, researchers and physicians in Canada who are calling for earlier breast cancer screening for all women, but especially for Black women. Delays in screening may be particularly devastating among Black women, but no one can yet say so with certainty here in Canada. Unlike in the United States, Canada does not collect the race-based data that could demonstrate any heightened breast cancer risks for Black women.But ample evidence from the U.S. shows that Black women are more likely than white women to be diagnosed with aggressive breast cancer at a young age, more likely to be diagnosed with cancer at an advanced stage and more likely to die at a young age from these cancers. Despite these patterns, Black women dont have the same opportunities for screening, genetic testing, treatment and clinical trial participation as white women, U.S. studies show.Without race-based data in Canada, there is no evidence to suggest Black women here experience similarly terrible outcomes. And, yet, there is also no evidence to show that they do not.
Black women and breast cancer
Aisha Lofters is a family physician and health equity researcher focused on inclusive cancer care at the Womens College Hospital in Toronto.
Aisha Lofters, a family physician and chair in implementation science at the Peter Gilgan Centre for Womens Cancers at Torontos Womens College Hospital, said she and her colleagues noticed that they were seeing many Black women with aggressive or advanced cancers in their 30s and 40s. These women found lumps on their ownaccidentally or during self-examsrather than by mammograms.To Lofters, this pattern suggests something is wrong. Sometimes the best evidence is peoples stories. Its what they are telling you, she says.Lofters is cautious about applying American data to Canadian women. The two countries health and economic systems differ enormously, she points out. The populations are not comparable. The Black population in Canada is more diverse genetically than the Black population in the United States. Black women in Canada are more likely to have ancestral roots from throughout Africa, whereas Black women in the U.S. more often have ancestry that can be traced to West Africa, reflecting the deep history of people being taken from nations in that region and enslaved in the Americas.Moreover, race is not biological, but is a social construct, says Lofters. This is an important distinction: Genetic predispositions to illnesses depend largely on ancestrywhere someones roots areand not race. Even so, she says, American research is sending a signal about breast cancer and Black women with West African ancestry that Canadians should not, and cannot, ignore. We need to recognize that signal, get people aware of it and produce the best research, she says.(Related: The Forces That Shape Health Care for Black Women)In the U.S., non-Hispanic Black women have a 45 percent higher risk for invasive cancers before age 50 than non-Hispanic white women. This study, which was published in the journal Cancer in 2021, found that Black women are more likely to die from breast cancer before they are 50. Another study that looked at nearly 200,000 women between the ages of 40 and 84 who had undergone a screening mammogram found that Black women have a nearly threefold risk for triple-negative breast cancer, one of the most aggressive subtypes.As a result of this growing body of evidence, the American College of Radiology and Society of Breast Imaging updated their screening recommendations to highlight the heightened cancer risk for Black women and other women of colour. The organizations called for annual mammography screening beginning at age 40 for all women but noted that any delays in screening disproportionately harm women of colour.In Canada, the national guidelines on cancer screening come from the Canadian Task Force on Preventive Health Care, a committee set up by the Public Health Agency of Canada. The task force consists of 15 volunteers with expertise in primary care and disease prevention. In the most recent guidelines, from 2018, screening mammography for women in their 40s is not recommended. They made the case that the benefits did not outweigh the risks of overdiagnosispicking up tumours that are unlikely to cause harm. Women aged 50 to 74 should be screened every two years, they said. The authors added a caveat for women in their 40s: Some may wish to be screened based on their values and preferences. In this circumstance, care providers should engage in shared decision-making with women who express an interest in being screened, they wrote. But in the studies used by the task force, few Black women were included (they relied heavily on data from Scandinavian countries). And the reality is that Black Canadian women have been diagnosed under the age of 50 after being told they are ineligible for screening mammography.(Related: Womens Health Collective Canada Is Addressing the Gap in Womens Health)
Black women and breast cancer
Mother of three Dawn Barker-Pierre wanted a mammogram when she turned 40, but her family doctor told her she didnt need one until she hit 50. At 44, she was diagnosed with triple-negative breast cancer.
Dawn Barker-Pierre was born in Barbados and moved to Toronto as a child. A mother of three, she wanted a mammogram when she turned 40. When she asked her family doctor, she was told she didnt need it until age 50. Two years later, she asked again, but was told no a second time: She had no history of breast cancer in her direct family and she was healthy, with no lifestyle behaviours that would increase her risk.Barker-Pierre had felt dismissed by her doctors before, however, with prior questions about health changes shed noticed. The first was skin-colour changes under her eyes, which can be associated with thyroid issues, but when she asked for further tests, she was sent to a dermatologist. Eventually, she insisted on getting bloodwork, and persisted until her labs revealed she was suffering from hypothyroidism.A few months later, at age 44, she discovered a lump in her breast one night while she was watching TV. Her doctor sent her for a mammogram. As the technician performed the scan, she told Barker-Pierre that the healthcare team would not be able to determine when things started changing in her breast because there were no previous scans in her records to compare against. That floored me, she recalls.Barker-Pierre, whose youngest child was 12 at the time, was diagnosed with triple-negative breast cancer, which is typically fast-growing and hard to treat. The cells in triple-negative breast cancer dont have receptors for the hormones estrogen and progesterone, and they do not, generally, make large amounts of the HER2 protein. But most targeted therapies and medications (like tamoxifen or Herceptin) used in breast cancer treatment go after that protein or those hormone receptors. With triple-negative breast cancers, the main treatment options are chemotherapy, with its host of toxic consequences; surgery; and immunotherapy. Overall, there are no targeted treatment options for what is a more aggressive cancer, says Andrea Covelli, a surgical oncologist with Mount Sinai Health Network whose research is focused on health inequities.
black women and breast cancer
Juliet Daniel, a professor and cancer biologist at McMaster University in Ontario, has led groundbreaking research showing that Kaiso a gene she discovered, is highly expressed in the breast cancer tissues of Black women compared to Caucasian women.
Triple-negative breast cancer is more common in Black women, and this has been shown consistently in studies across different countries, says Juliet Daniel, a professor and cancer biologist at McMaster University. Daniels work is personal: Her mother died from ovarian cancer four days before Daniels undergraduate convocation from Queens University, and this came a few months after the death of a close family friend who had breast cancer. These losses shook Daniel, who had planned to pursue medical school. After finishing her bachelors degree, she decided she didnt want to work in a hospital where she might be faced with patients dying of cancer because drugs had not yet been created to treat their disease. Instead, she became a cancer researcher, focused on solutions and treatments. Decades later, in 2009, she herself would face a breast cancer diagnosis.In 1999, Daniel had discovered a gene that, later, she found was associated with a number of cancers, including triple-negative breast cancer. She named the gene Kaiso, after the West African music that inspired calypso, the musical genre thats deeply ingrained in the culture of Barbados, Daniels birthplace. Over the last 20 years, Daniel has led groundbreaking research showing that Kaiso is highly expressed in the breast cancer tissues of Black women compared to Caucasian women, and that women with high levels of Kaiso expression are less likely to survive breast cancer.Daniel believes there is more than enough evidence to begin screening women by age 40. I would say that young Black women should be having a baseline mammogram at the age of 40 if possible, she says, adding that she would like to see Canadas national guideline changed to recommend a mammogram for all women at 40, as the risks of screening younger women (such as false positives that could result in needless biopsies or even surgery) are outweighed by the benefits. The earlier breast cancer is diagnosed, the higher your probability of survival, she says.Changing the nationwide recommendations will only address one barrier affecting Black women in Canada when it comes to the prevention and treatment of breast cancer. There is evidence at the provincial level to show that Black women are dealing with multiple obstacles in the cancer care system. This can have deadly or life-altering consequences. In Ontario, research conducted by Lofters and her team has found that women who immigrated from the Caribbean and Latin America wait longer for a diagnosis, are diagnosed at later stages and have a longer interval from diagnosis to the start of chemotherapy for reasons that not well-understood. Another study showed that women in Canada who were born in a Muslim-majority country were less likely to have regular breast cancer screening. In Nova Scotia, Black women are less likely to get mammograms; Black women in that province also told researchers that they had difficulty navigating the health-care system, and that they faced racism from clinicians.For Daniel, these findings come as no surprise. She often hears stories from women who feel doctors dismissed their concerns about cancer and told them they were too young for a mammogram. Thats irresponsible, says Daniel. At a minimum, they should ask about family history and send those patients for an ultrasound rather than telling the patient theyre too young to have breast cancer. In many ethnic communities, she notes, women can face a stigma after a cancer diagnosis. When women come in to ask about screening, they should be welcomed into the system rather than turned away, she says.Daniel and Lofters both work with Olive Branch of Hope, a Toronto-based organization that raises awareness and supports Black women with breast cancer. They want more education among all women about the risks of breast cancer at all ages. They also want better training for physicians, including a designated course on equity, diversity and inclusion where doctors would be educated about cultural sensitivity, including the challenges that non-white patients experience, and the damage and the hurt that causes to many non-white, equity-seeking, equity-deserving patients, regardless of disease, says Daniel.The Canadian task force says it will release an updated, nation-wide breast cancer screening guideline sometime early in 2023. In the meantime, several provinces have modified their policies and brought down the recommended age to begin screeningbut whether this increases access for any one individual will depend on where she lives. In British Columbia, Nova Scotia and Prince Edward Island, women in their 40s are encouraged to talk to their doctor, and are eligible for screening every two years. Alberta recently announced a new policy recommending regular mammograms beginning at age 45. All other provinces recommend that screening begin at 50 for women who do not have a family history of breast cancer.Women of colour are also underrepresented in the research that helps set cancer treatment guidelinesa pattern that reflects, in part, a deep suspicion in the Black community that grew out of historic mistreatment by scientists, says Lofters. She urges women and men who are diagnosed with breast cancer to participate in clinical trials. If research is carried out on mostly white or racially homogeneous populations, were not getting the diversity that we need among people in the trial, and then we dont know truly how broadly applicable the findings are, she says. Lofters, Daniel and Covelli are trying to address this in Canada by proactively seeking out Black women to participate in studies to learn about inequities in the system.(Related: Incredible Black Women Who Are Changing Canadian Health Care)In Calgary, Campbell is now almost five years out from her diagnosis. Her life looks very different today. She worked throughout her chemotherapy treatments, but found that the drugs left her unable to do basic math in her head, and she felt she could not perform at work in the way she wanted to. Having to walk away from [my dream job] was almost as heartbreaking as the cancer, she says. She took time off and returned to the workforce in a different role.Campbell knows firsthand that disparities exist for Black women with breast cancer, and it goes beyond screenings, diagnoses and prognosesits also a widespread failure to recognize that not all breast cancer patients have the same needs. When Campbell developed skin rashes and facial scars from her chemotherapy, she saw three dermatologists for help with her eczema. They said her concerns were not uncommon in Black patients, but they did not have an answer, she says. A fourth specialist reached out to a group of Black dermatologists who finally offered advice.Nearly two years after her lumpectomy, Campbell went to a plastic surgeon to discuss breast reconstruction. As she looked through the catalogue with photos of breasts post-surgery, she did not see a single breast of a woman of colour. She couldnt tell what the scars would look like her on skin. Campbell walked out. She eventually had two reconstruction surgeries, using a newer technique: autologous fat grafting, in which fat is removed from her abdomen and injected into the breast.Campbell still feels frustrated that Canada does not collect the race-based data that could identify any disparities experienced by Black women with breast cancer. These gaps exist here, independent of socioeconomic status, she insists. In the absence of data, stories like hers are the best evidence we have.Im not poor. Im an engineer. My second degree is in law. I can read all the medical information quite fine. I even know how the drugs I use are made, says Campbell. So help me understand why I had such a miserable time with breast cancer. It has nothing to do with my poverty or access to medical care.Next: As a Cancer Journey Coach and Breast Cancer Survivor, Im Changing the Narrative for Cancer

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How to Unfreeze Painful Frozen Shoulder https://www.besthealthmag.ca/article/frozen-shoulder-exercises-pain/ Fri, 10 Mar 2023 14:00:04 +0000 https://www.besthealthmag.ca/?p=67180165 Frozen shoulder is a common and painful condition. Luckily, there are easy stretches that you can try to ease your pain.

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Adhesive capsulitis, better known as frozen shoulder, is an uncomfortable condition characterized by pain in the shoulder joints and restricted range of motion. I like to describe it as bubble gum in your shoulder, and youre trying to move but it takes so much effort to move past a certain point, says Surabhi Veitch, a Toronto-based physiotherapist and owner of the Passionate Physio. This condition makes everyday tasks like scratching your back or grabbing something off an overhead shelf feel impossible.Like the name implies, frozen shoulder comes with an unbearable stuck sensation. The bones, ligaments and tendons that make up the shoulder joint are encased in connective tissuefrozen shoulder occurs when the connective tissue thickens and tightens around the joint, restricting movement. Often, people develop frozen shoulder because theyre not moving the joint frequently, such as when theyre in recovery from a surgery or injury, though a sedentary lifestyle can also cause the painful condition. People aged 40 to 60, and particularly post-menopausal women (thanks to a change in hormone levels), are the most likely to develop frozen shoulder.Treatment for frozen shoulder typically focuses on pain management, and doctors will often suggest anti-inflammatory medications like aspirin or ibuprofen. In addition, easing frozen shoulder pain requires stretching out the connective tissue and restoring the joints range of motion. Getting into the habit of stretching can also fight off other aches and pains and help improve flexibility. According to Veitch, a stretching routine in the middle of your workday, especially if youre sitting at a desk, can help maintain good range of motion and prevent injury.One of the best exercises to integrate into your daily routine is called the lying pendulum. With frozen shoulder, your muscles will be stiff. This stretch can help you regain movement in the shoulder, says Ivana Sy, a Vancouver-based kinesiologist. Sy says to start by lying face down on a bed or coach. Then, drape one arm over the edge and let it dangle. Then, slowly move the affected arm side to side and forward and backward and around in circles. Repeat three times daily. Do the exercise for 30 seconds and, over time, increase the duration up to five minutes as you progress. According to Sy, the pendulum can really help improve range of motion and reduce aches and pains.Veitch suggests using a wall to help stretch your shoulders. Start by facing a wall with your toes as close as possible to the baseboard. Then, place your hands at eye level and slowly creep them up the wall to create a stretch in your shoulder blades. Try to reach as high as you can!Regaining or maintaining the ability to reach behind you is also important. As we age and lose mobility, Veitch notes that reaching back often becomes a challenge, even without a condition like frozen shoulder. Many people are struggling to put on their bras, and they flip it around to do their bra up in the front, says Veitch. But if we avoid the movement, it becomes more difficult. Practise reaching behind your back by grabbing one end of a scarf (or any length of fabric) with one hand. Holding the scarf on one end, reach over your shoulder, as if to scratch the back of your neck, to dangle the scarf down your back. With your other hand, reach back as if you were going to grab something from your back pocket. Instead, grab onto the opposite end of the scarf. With your top hand, pull the scarf to gently slide your bottom hand up. Switch hands and repeat.With true frozen shoulder, it can take a long time, even with treatment, to feel better, says Veitch. But the goal with stretches is to maintain mobility so your entire life is easier.(Related:4 Stretches to Improve Range of Motion as You Age)

Try these frozen shoulder exercises:

Pendulum Frozen Shoulder Exercises

The pendulum

Lying face down on a bed or couch, let one arm hang off the edge and move it back and forth and side to side to increase range of motion. Repeat on the other side.Wall Slides Frozen Shoulder Exercises

Wall slides

Facing a wall with your feet as close to the baseboard as possible, place your hands on the wall at eye level and slowly inch your fingers up. Try to reach as high as you can!Reach Around Frozen Shoulder Exercises

Reach around

Grab a scarf end with one hand and reach up and over your shoulder, with it dangling down behind you. With the other hand, reach back and grab the bottom of the scarf. With the hand on top, slowly pull on the scarf to get your bottom arm to move up. Switch hands and repeat.Next: Your Phone Might Be Hurting Your Hand

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“I’m Waiting for a Kidney Transplant. Again.” https://www.besthealthmag.ca/article/kidney-transplant/ Thu, 09 Mar 2023 12:00:52 +0000 https://www.besthealthmag.ca/?p=67183563 June Jones has lived more than half her life with kidney disease.

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When June Jones says she wakes up early most days, she means before-the-birds early. The retired grandmother of four is up before dawn (sometimes as early as 2 a.m.) several days a week for dialysis. She crawls out of bed and creeps down the hall to her spare bedroom, where she has a hemodialysis machine set up in her Ottawa home. Jones hooks up the chest catheter, lies down and starts a four-hour-long treatment. I usually cant sleep, she says, but I rest my eyes and listen to quiet music, or I read a book.Jones, who is 61, has become an expert at managing kidney disease and, over the past 33 years, she has tried almost every treatment available to her.In the spring of 1989, a year after her son was born, she recalls feeling really run down, even for a busy young mother. Her doctor eventually sent her to a nephrologist, who diagnosed her with IgA nephropathy, a chronic kidney disease. Over the next decade, Jones was able to manage her condition with a range of medications until 1998, when her kidneys failed. Six months later, she was fortunate to get a kidney transplant. That worked really well for almost 15 years, Jones says. Over time, though, the disease came back, and nine years ago the new kidney failed, too.Since then, Jones has been on dialysis, waiting and hoping for another transplant. Unfortunately, it has proven extremely difficult to find a match due to her unusually high antibody levels.For now, Jones is set on using her experience with the disease to help others. She volunteers with the Kidney Foundation of Canadas peer support program, sharing advice with other patients. People can get down about dialysis, but I say you cant let it rule your life, because it will if you let it. Jones works hard at keeping her own outlook bright, too. If I wasnt on dialysis, life would be so much betterbut still, life is good, she says.Next: Everything You Dont Know About Kidney Disease (But Should)

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Everything You Don’t Know About Kidney Disease (But Should) https://www.besthealthmag.ca/article/what-to-know-about-kidney-disease/ Thu, 09 Mar 2023 12:00:40 +0000 https://www.besthealthmag.ca/?p=67183562 One in 10 Canadians has kidney disease––and not all of them know it yet

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The kidneys are as vital to our health and well-being as the heart or lungs. But chances are you rarely give them a second thoughtor even know how they work. The kidneys are underappreciated in terms of all that they do, says Caitlin Hesketh, a nephrologist at the Ottawa Hospital. They filter all of the blood in the body (at a rate of about one litre per minute), balancing minerals like potassium and sodium and removing waste products and excess water through urine. Kidneys also produce hormones that regulate blood pressure and red blood cell production, and they play a role in bone health, since theyre involved in manufacturing vitamin D and managing calcium and phosphate levels. This pair of vital organs, each about the size of a clenched fist, is reddish brown in colour and has a similar shape to its namesake legume, the kidney bean.

When kidneys fail

There are about 4 million Canadians living with kidney disease, says Amrita Sukhi, a nephrologist with Trillium Health Partners in Mississauga, Ontario. And many of them arent even aware they have renal failure because the symptoms (fatigue, peeing less often) are analogous with other diseases.The term kidney disease describes an array of disorders and conditions, can range in severity from mild to severe and sometimes results in complete kidney failure (also called end-stage kidney disease). When people have kidney failure, they may retain too much of that stuff that the kidneys should be getting rid of and that can make people very sick, says Hesketh. But in the early stages, for the most part, the body compensates well for reduced kidney function. As with high blood pressure, kidney disease can go undetected, and many people only realize they have a problem once its quite advanced.Its unfortunate, because people dont tend to get really sick until the kidney function is down to five or 10 percent, says Hesketh. Sukki adds, By the time you get symptoms, which are vague, like poor energy, reduced appetite, some swelling, you can be on the brink of requiring dialysis. (Dialysis is a medical treatment, often done in hospital several time a week, that cleans the blood and removes waste fluids from the body.) Without treatment, full kidney failure eventually leads to death.Thats why routine screening for kidney problems is so important. The albumin/creatinine ratio (ACR) test measures the amount of protein in urine, and flags high levels that could indicate possible kidney damage. The estimated glomerular filtration rate (eGFR) blood test is another easy way to measure how well your kidneys are working. Either test can be done as part of a routine exam. Your doctor can determine your risk factors (more on that soon) and how often you should be screened.

Managing kidney disease

A lot of patients come to the clinic very scared that Im going to put them on dialysis right away, but its possible to live well with kidney disease for many years, says Sukhi. Most people will require diet and lifestyle modifications, or medications, to manage the effects of their poorly functioning kidneys and prevent conditions like high potassium or low hemoglobin levels. For most people, kidney damage cant be reversed, but it can be slowed and the effects can be managed.Most often, kidney disease occurs when a separate condition or disease impairs their function, so treating the underlying cause is also very important, says Hesketh. If someone has kidney disease due to diabetes, high blood pressure or vascular disease, those patients first treat those issues, she says. If someone has an underlying infection (like hepatitis B) or an inflammatory condition or autoimmune disease (such as lupus) that is causing their kidney failure, they can take medications to manage that issue, relieving the burden on the kidneys. Ideally, we do these things to keep the kidney function from getting worse, but inevitably chronic kidney disease will progress over time and eventually some patients may require dialysis or a kidney transplant, says Hesketh.For many, a transplant is the only way to get off dialysisa therapy that can be quite life-altering, says Hesketh. Dialysis treatment can be emotionally draining, a financial burden and an enormous time commitment. Plus, there are the physical side effects, which range from low blood pressure (for patients on hemodialysis) to high blood sugar (for people on peritoneal dialysis). Patients on dialysis need a tremendous amount of support, Hesketh says.

Know your risk factors

The risk factors for kidney disease include some you can control, like smoking, and others you cant. The most common causes of kidney disease are diabetes and hypertension, says Sukhi. Diseases of the blood vessels put a lot of pressure on kidney function, which causes damage over time. There are also structural kidney diseases that arise from things like urinary obstructions or hereditary conditions. People of Asian, South Asian, Hispanic and Caribbean descent are at higher risk for kidney disease in general for a variety of reasons. And Indigenous people in Canada are more than three times as likely to have their kidneys fail. People who take non-steroidal anti-inflammatory medications (NSAIDs)like Celebrex to treat arthritis, for examplemay also be at higher risk for this disease.

Supporting the health of your kidneys

For the most part, maintaining well-functioning kidneys comes down to a healthy lifestyle and managing other medical conditions. If you know theres a family history of [type 2] diabetes or hypertension that affects the kidneys, know that you should do everything you can to avoid it, says Sukhi. You dont want to wait until you are told you have low kidney function, because at that point they are already damaged. And, in most cases, that kidney damage cant be reversed.Next: Im Waiting for a Kidney Transplant. Again.

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This Is How I Carry on After My Husband’s Terminal ALS Diagnosis https://www.besthealthmag.ca/article/diagnosed-with-terminal-illness/ Mon, 06 Mar 2023 12:00:49 +0000 https://www.besthealthmag.ca/?p=67183551 Kelsie Snow on clinical trials, terminal diagnoses, holding onto hope and going public with her husband’s devastating ALS diagnosis at age 37.

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In the summer of 2004, I was an intern at the Los Angeles Times. I kept hearing about Chris Snow, one of the star interns from years past. Later, I got an internship at the Boston Globe, where he was a reporter covering the Boston Red Sox. This guy is everywhere I go, I thought. When we finally met, he had pretty eyes and a nice smile. That was it. We got engaged the next summer.In 2011, I was pregnant with our first baby when Chris was offered a dream job as director of video and statistical analysis for the Calgary Flames. We moved to Canada when our son was five weeks old. Our daughter was born three years later.When we were dating, Chris told me that ALS ran in his family. Its a devastating neuromuscular disease with a life expectancy of six to 12 months. ALS mostly occurs sporadically, but about 10 percent of cases are genetic. Thats how it is in Chriss family. In 2003, his uncle died from the disease; another uncle died a decade later. In 2016, Chriss 28-year-old cousin died. Two years later, ALS took Chriss dad from us.Chris had a chance of having the genetic mutation that causes ALS, but we didnt know if he didit was always a question. Then, in 2019, when he was 37 and I was 35, he started to have numbness in two fingers on his right hand. Anyone else would have thought it was a pinched nerve, but we were on high alert.We immediately started looking for a diagnosis. It takes, on average, more than a year to be diagnosed with ALS, which means most patients are unable to join what few clinical trials there are while they still have time. If youve had symptoms for any length of time, you become ineligible for many drug trials. These trials are designed for very select patients who are most likely to benefitso its usually people who are in the earliest stages of the disease.We moved quickly. That June, we flew to the University of Miami to see a specialist in familial ALS who had cared for Chriss dad. It was the first time wed both been away from our kids overnight. They were four and seven, and it was Fathers Day. We couldnt tell them that we were going to find out if Daddy had the same illness that Grandpa Bob died from. We said it was a work trip and I was tagging along.Chris went through testing and then we sat in a little room with the doctor. He told us that Chris was in the early stages of ALS. In the next breath, he told us that the first step was for us to join a clinical trialChris qualified for the first-ever stage three ASL trial for gene therapy.I dont know if the doctor ever said the word hope, but thats what I deduced: We could have hope. Right away, I knew our story would be different because very few families with this disease ever get hope. Most people are told to go home, do what you love, get your affairs in order and die.We were so scared, but we leaned hard into hope. Chris had a one-in-three chance of being on the placebo. A one-in-three chance is devastating when your life expectancy is less than a year. I look back on that time and wonder how we kept putting one foot in front of the other, not knowing. But we were pretty sure he was not on placebo because we saw an immediate slowing of the progression of his disease.That October, Chris stepped onto the ice with our son, Cohen, for hockey practice for the first time since the changes in his hand. Chris hadnt been able to get his hockey glove to stay on because his right hand just flopped around. But the equipment manager for the Flames molded Chriss glove into a fist. Chris also wore a hand brace and I used a hair tie to hold the glove onto the brace. But then when he shot the puck, it lifted into the air and pinged off the crossbar! I knew then he wasnt on the placebo.In the fall of 2019, Chris was promoted to assistant general manager of the Flames, and we went public with his diagnosis in December. I started writing about it on my blog, Kelsie Snow Writes. As I kept writing, people sent me messages about their grief and their own sad stories.At first, I found myself running hard from any sad story. I didnt want to hear it. I wanted to stay locked in this world where we had the special sauce and everything was going to go well for us, and we were going to be the exception. But thats not how this works. It took time to accept that.This is a lonely place to bethis place of your husband never getting better. One of the hardest things about an illness (or a loss or tragedy) is the notion that nobody understands. Everyone elses lives are still going on. And youre here, socked into your own misery and nobody sees you. I realized I wanted to be around people who understood how I felt, the people who made me feel like I could keep moving.To feel supported, I needed the stories of others. I needed to hear how people survive loss. So I started a podcast, Sorry, Im Sad. I talk to people about their sad stories, and I feel lighter for having difficult conversations. I dont ever feel like Im weighed down by somebody elses story.In the beginning, I thought maybe the medicine was enough; that Chriss ALS was not going to progress. But its been really hard lately. About nine months after we started on the trial, I went to take a picture of him and our daughter, Willa, and I noticed that his smile had a little droop. That started an aggressive cascade of losses, including control of his facial muscles. He lost his ability to smile, raise his eyebrows, make expressions. Chris said it was like being diagnosed all over again.Speaking is getting more difficult. He cant project or make hard consonant sounds. He lost his ability to swallow, and we worry about him choking, so now he uses a feeding tube.Weve dealt with a lot of scary things, like aspiration pneumonia and emergency rooms and the ICU. Weve been sad and tired and angry. We have all these problems that we have to troubleshoot, and we have to grieve whatever the latest loss was.Im settling into this realization that, yes, it is a huge miracle that Chris is still alive. But hes never going to get better. You wonder if people still want to hear about it.I focus on the small moments. The other day, I watched my daughter stick her hand out the car window, moving it through the air like a wave. And I thought, Thats what Im here for. These moments. What we have right now is beautiful.Next: Caring For My Dying Mom Showed Me That Caregivers Need More Support, Too

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